As the d-day draws
closer, the pressure on you begins to mount. Term papers due for submission, final
project wahala (can never forget the stress I went through while writing mine),
clearance, endless presentations, parties you just can’t afford to miss and at
this point, you begin to experience constant mixed feelings… one time you’re
like ‘Mehn… I just can’t wait to
graduate” at the same time you don’t feel
like graduating because of the friends you don’t want to say good bye to, the
covering that is naturally available to you in the society as a student and the
'comfort zone' factor (reluctance to step into the unknown).
I remember how I felt few
days to grad. Truth be told, I was scared to death. Scared of what? I don’t know.
But I knew I was scared of something. Maybe I was scared of stepping out into
the “real world” as they call it, scared of saying goodbye to the people I’ve
come to know, scared to be left alone to make choices, scared because
I do not even know if what I had gained in school was enough to sustain this
new phase of my life.
As I walked alone on
that calm night, reflecting on my journey so far and where I was headed, I was
confronted with that big question… What NEXT? Ok… now I felt like becoming a college freshman all
over again and re take courses such as WRITING 101, MATH 101, and all the other
101’s courses all because I feared stepping out into the unknown.
Fast forward a few days
later, I had my diploma in my hands and was given 3 days to evacuate the school
premises. But because I needed time to plan and get myself together, I stayed
back in school for about a week.
Stepping out of the
school gate after my week of planning, it was a time of transit from the crazy,
carefree, lovely and stressful life as a student into the ‘real world.” On
getting to the “real world,” I realized Nigeria is populated with a lot of frustrated
graduates. Some who wanted to become Doctors, Lawyers, Computer Science expert,
Engineers, and Lab Scientist, yet ended up with degrees in Fishery, animal
science, linguistic, Library and information systems and maybe Bicycle Engineering
(that’s if there’s a course like that). And the funny thing is some of these
people are first class graduates. Now, I’m not condemning any degree, neither
am I placing a profession above another, my point is; most graduates are
equipped for the battle (Labour Market) with the wrong weapons. I mean, how do you become efficient in
something you have no passion for?
Ok… now you’ve
graduated… good… may be with a first class in double majors… awesome!! And you
are on your way to getting a PhD degree…Incredible… But the question is, are
you capable of solving problems and adding value? That’s what an employer wants to know; How can
your first class degree make a difference in the organization? I believe life
is about the enhancement of value and enriching
the lives of others.
After I graduated from
the University, I worked in an oil firm as a Project Admin officer for about 6
months and trust me; it was a different ball game. It was a match between theoretical
knowledge vs. practical knowledge. You see, the title you wear is not as
important as the task you perform. You must understand that you become more
valuable based on the problems you solve not the degree you carry. No company
wants to hire a “first class” liability. So before you allow your first class
degree get into you head, take a chill pill, relax and ask yourself one simple
question: Am I capable of solving problems? Ouch!
Now, let me issue a
disclaimer here: The Labour Market is highly competitive and demanding. Don’t
get it twisted. My friend Micheal Onobote would say, “Your first class will
pave way for you to attend job interviews, but it doesn’t guarantee that you
will get the job.” Your getting the job is predicated on what you know up
stairs and the people you know “at the top,” I mean, “Your oga’s at the top.” Shey
you get? And oh yes! The favorr of God.
Now, to stand out,
you’ve got to increase your capacity. You’ve got to do what others are not
doing. Look beyond your degree and keep growing. You’ve got to stretch and develop yourself. Acquire
a skill and be good at it.
Read books, magazines,
and articles that are related to your field. In fact be an avid reader. Read!
Read!! Read!!! To lead in your field you’ve got to read, practice, and be disciplined.
unfortunately, most people don’t read. All you here them talk about is
champions league, AFCON, NYSC allowee, who stole money and who didn’t and all
them Kim Kadashian, Rihanna and Beyonce’s
story. Honestly, I’m tired of mediocrity…
Those guys have made
names for themselves. While others were busy talking about others, they were
busy honing their skills and building capacity. You also, should try,
regardless of where you are presently and do same rather than sit for hours
talking about people who don’t even know you exist *Throws away face*
When I started Blogging,
I had three (3) things in mind: (1) to improve
my writing skill and knowledge base. (2) To inspire people (3) to educate
people
I know the height I want
to attain, but to attain that height I have to start from somewhere which is
what I am doing. You also can do same.
We may not share similar passion, but whatever your passion is, chase it with
all you’ve got. Maybe your passion lies
in singing. Start developing yourself in that area. Maybe you are crazy about
fashion, start a sewing class, read about top designers to know how they got to
where they are today. “Despise not the days of little
beginnings” If you have a passion for drawing… start practicing now. You
want to be a computer guru but all you do is open and close Microsoft word
every day. You must be joking. Your “oga’s at
the top” definitely won’t be happy with you. Take professional courses and constantly
practice and hone your skill in the area you want to major in. Start where you
are but don’t remain where you started. Champions don’t wait for opportunities.
They prepare for opportunities. Eaglets are born, but EAGLES are made. You will
never be all you were destined to be by remaining in the nest of your life- the
comfort zone. Step out of the nest of your life and join the leagues of eagles.
I’m pretty sure I have
offended some people. Well, I’m sorry.
I think I should stop
here so I can attend to my “oga at the top.”
Please leave a comment
and share with others.
Gracias
Huntly Anabs
Twitter:@huntlya
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