tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-23498626731679771432024-03-16T00:08:38.134-07:00The Journey beginsHope for the hopelessAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13299584110237604769noreply@blogger.comBlogger81125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2349862673167977143.post-27192497384632257192013-06-18T11:27:00.000-07:002013-06-18T11:27:06.183-07:00The Journey Has Just Begun<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Starting off on a
journey is not really an easy thing to do. More challenging is the ability to
keep on travelling even when you are not so sure of the next turn to take. The
past one year has been for me, a life changing experience as I have come to
find fulfillment in blogging. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>June 9<sup>th</sup> 2013 marked a year since I
started blogging and I cannot begin to explain the intense joy I feel on the
inside and for that, I am grateful to God. <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></i>Today is in gratitude to all those who in
one way or the other has encouraged me to keep on blogging. Without you guys, I
would have dropped the passion for blogging a long time ago. When an article
written by me has over 840 read, I’m encouraged to want to write more.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Thank you! Thank you!! Thank you!!!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">While BlogSpot has been
a great platform for me over the past one year, I believe it is time to move on
to something new and dynamic… By that, I mean this is going to be my last post
on BlogSpot.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A new chapter has started
on the Journey Begins and it’s on </span><a href="http://www.huntlya.com/"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">www.huntlya.com</span></a><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">
(Yeah! That’s our new website)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I want to specially
thank the team of Powerline Solutions for the thousands of hours they’ve
invested into the development of the Journey Begins website. I’m grateful to
you guys. To the CEO of Slate7 Media, Cynthia Dieye, thank you for the well
designed logo. I’m most appreciative. And to all my readers, who of course have
been part of "the journey begins", I say THANK YOU. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I really wish I could
compose something more poignant, but words are failing me!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">If I’m to leave with an
advice, that advice would be: <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Start now
no matter how small.</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Now all traffic leads
to our new website </span><a href="http://www.huntlya.com/"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">www.huntlya.com</span></a><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I really hope you love it. Please do check it
out and leave a comment and YES! share with others. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">The Journey has
actually just begun. See you at </span><a href="http://www.huntlya.com/"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">www.huntlya.com</span></a></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Rebranding Minds</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Huntly Anabs</span></div>
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<a href="http://www.huntlya.com/"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">www.huntlya.com</span></a><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I wasn’t so sure if I was
going to go back the same way I had left home. Done shopping, I decided to
treat myself to a cup of ice cream and so, instead of exiting the building at
once, I stopped by the ice cream section where I met this “hot” lady who had my
head spinning like a wheel. I could see as she gazed at me that, perhaps, she
was swept off her feet by my dapper appearance.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I thought I’d take a
chance, so like most guys would, I bought my cup of ice cream, walked up to her
table, and asked, “Can I join you please?” “Sure,” she retorted. Sitting there,
I wasn’t going to pretend as though I was blinded to her seductiveness… I sure
wasn’t. I’m human you know…Just like a photographer would capture a moment with
his camera, my eyes/mind captured her every moves and so, just in an instant, I
knew what kind of conversation would excite her. I guess blending in happens to
be one of my many gifts. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">So I kicked off, “Tell
me about yourself…I mean… what excites you… what do you do?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Are you a student…? Bla blab la…” And she
goes “I’m just a bitch who loves exploring life….. I’m sure you can tell by my
looks. And yes, I love flirting with guys!” <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">“Wow!!!... So you call
yourself a bitch?” I asked sarcastically. “Interesting… so… what makes you call
yourself a bitch?” Her response went something like this: “I’m a bitch because
I smoke; drink, party, and have sex with guys I admire not for money, but for
the fun of it.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I paused for a moment
as I imagined how in the world a lady gets to the point where she sees or thinks
of herself as a bitch. I had heard people use the pejorative term “bitch” but I
didn’t know what it meant until that day I checked it in the dictionary. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A Bitch according to the Encarta Dictionary is,
“<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">A female dog, or the female of another
related such as a fox, or of another carnivore such as a ferret.”</i><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Maybe I’m missing
something, and I stand to be corrected, but I tried to see if I could find the
connection between a “bitch” and the ladies who call themselves bitches, but I
couldn’t; A female dog and a lady? *Confused face* So why then do some ladies
call themselves bitches and/or allow guys call them bitches? Could it be that
they want to just fit in with the popular crowd or that they find pleasure in
being “bad”?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It seems to me that the bad
guy/girl swag is what’s in vogue. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: red; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">And so, a
lady sees herself as a bitch just because she has slept with every Tom, Dick
and Harry or because she smokes and drink. But isn’t it usually her
vulnerability or insecurity that brings her to the point where she condescends
so low to accepting the name “BITCH?” I’m really curious.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Maybe I should digress
a little. It has been said that, ‘Love Is a Many-Splendored Thing’. If that’s
true, then one of these splendors should be directed inward. While we value and
validate the worth of others, we must also take the time to affirm our own
sense of personhood. It’s virtually impossible to get people to call us by a
name we do not call ourselves. We actually train others on how to treat us by
the way we treat ourselves. They need to hear us sing our song and hum to our
own solo. They watch from a distance, our level of style and class, and our
preferences. And it is what they see in us that determines how they relate to
us.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Now, it’s easy for us
to crucify people whose flaws and frailties are glaring, especially when we
don’t know what got them into the mess they are in. I believe one of the
ironies of life is that people will ignore your good traits and label you bad
over something you didn’t get right. More unfortunate is when people dump their
opinion of themselves and accept what others say they are; they measure
themselves based on what they do and not on who they really are. And because
the pressure keeps mounting and no one understands their pain…next thing you
know: “I’m a bitch,” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“and that’s who I
am because people call me one”.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-themecolor: text1;">I believe many ladies find it difficult to appreciate/value themselves not
because they don’t want to but because society puts pressure on them to be
perfect and completely selfless; any attempt at self nurturing and self love is
condemned, eliciting accusations of being selfish and narcissistic. Thus, so
many women comply, never valuing themselves, never recognizing the princess
within them. And not knowing who they really are, they accept what others call
them. Don’t you ever think it’s easy to overcome this pressure. Even the most
liberated people are adversely affected by the pressure of public opinion. From
experience, I can categorically argue that withstanding the opinion of others
is at best stressful and at worst debilitating. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">So…Many ladies, I
believe, are crippled by the masses of people, particularly their close friends
who do not allow them the freedom of their own opinions and the exploration of
their own personhood. I used to think I don’t care what people think of me, but
as I grew older, I discovered to some degree I was still vulnerable to their
words and ideas. May be I didn’t just show it but in reality their opinions of
me got to the very core of my soul. I just knew how to handle it better I
guess. You know we all have the tendency to act like a superman- nothing gets
to us. Ha-ha, that’s a joke.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Perhaps one of the most
difficult things to achieve is for ladies, men as well, to strip themselves off
the many garments society puts on them. Many are the ladies, who believe they
are bitches because they smoke, party, drink, have sex with every guy and do
openly, what others would prefer to do in the secret. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They accept the bitch label to conform to the
masses. But may I present a slightly different message... While doing those things isn’t right, doing them doesn’t make one a
bitch. And yes! If a lady keeps seeing or calling herself a bitch, then she
should expect others, guys especially, to call her by the she name calls herself-BITCH.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Lastly, if I were to
define a bitch, my definition would go something like: <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">A bitch is someone who thinks she’s a bitch. (ooopps!!!!) </i>Please
don’t quote me.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I would like to read your opinion on this
subject matter. Please do leave a comment in the comment box below. And you can
as well follow me on twitter: @huntlya<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">"Many who were seated in
the commencement hall during the ‘Seniors Award Dinner’ were lost in laughter
as Shalom gave her “humorous speech.” From where I was seated, I could see as the
founder, H.E. Atiku Abubakar shook his head in total amazement, perhaps,
wondering to himself, “Who’s this lady? Why isn’t this girl an actress in Gollywood
or better still, Bollywood?”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">More than the humor of
the text was the thought provoking question in Shalom’s speech<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">, “</b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">What does tomorrow mean to
you?</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">
Deep question I would say. Shalom Otuene is indeed a raw talent with a great
sense of humor. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Please check out her
speech below and leave a comment if you so wish:</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">Today marks a great milestone for
members of faculty and staff; all of whom are happy we are moving on with
our lives. It is equally a moment of joy for our dear parents who have
shouted their hearts out and footed the bills; and of cause the
extra-ordinary class of 2013 - as we collectively celebrate our
achievement of another landmark for our glorious future.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">Your Excellencies, President Margee Ensign,
members of faculty and staff, proud parents and well-wishers, I say a big thank
you for being part of our commencement ceremony.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">Coming to AUN is a fulfilled dream - the dream of our
parents to give us the best and our own dream of having the best. Before I came
to AUN, my favourite phrase was <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">‘I don’t
know!’</b> With so much apathy and nonchalance I would quickly reply even
before any sentence sounding like a question is completed… ‘I don’t know!’ One
day immediately one of my elder sisters said ‘When are you…’, I immediately
replied ‘I don’t know!’. With a deep sigh she continued ‘… going back to
school.’ And just to prove that I really do not know, I said I would have to
check the school’s website as resumption date wasn’t announced. I knew this
attitude of mine wasn’t a good one. But I enjoyed the fact that it saved me
from work.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">Coming to AUN, I tried the ‘I don’t know’ pattern in
my classes. Oh no! What a big mistake I had made! </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">From instructors like Prof Ajayi who would call you
out to write on the board, to Prof Imade who would praise you with names I have
never heard before like super jumbo fly student, just for answering a question,
I knew I had to sit up.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">To make matters worse, ICP my major wouldn’t just
accept my ‘I don’t know’ attitude.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">Prof Imade would make me imagine I’m a senator and so
I should produce a resolution to an on-going national or international issue,
Prof Lim would make me write reaction essays for in class readings; stating
clearly what I agree with and where I felt the author was wrong, not forgetting
my own conclusion, Prof Gbara, would make me discuss with details, breaking
news I felt was of no importance to me, Prof Mayer who in trying to
make me understand him would give a joke and still laugh all by himself, Prof
Sims would make me produce a thesis and solutions including theories for
problems I did not create, and of cause the fear of being in Prof Hansen’s class
left me with no other choice than to do all these. From people who took his
class, I hear he would give 50 pages of work to read and write on right from
the first day of class. </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">Out of class we had to think of community service
projects to carry out. We had to belong to one club or the other; all into
developing the university and the community, which justifies AUN’s unique
development focus.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">This meant I had to know! I just had to know at all
times! And even when I sincerely did not know, I had to think and produce an
answer quickly! There was no chance to be silly anymore.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">Gradually from my first year to my last day in AUN, my
favourite phrase became ‘What can I do to help?’ this question was
anticipated even before my classes.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=2349862673167977143" name="_GoBack"></a></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">This has made me, or rather the ‘Me I’m becoming’: the
me who would seize any opportunity to impact a life, the me who would no longer
do things brashly but would take a minute to critically think and provide
empirical examples alongside.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">Albert Einstein once defined insanity as “doing the
same over and over and expecting different results”. And so ladies and gents, I
am honoured to humbly introduce to you my new-found lifelong friend from AUN,
which is called: ‘Improvement’. </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">We must seek to improve our lives every day no matter
the little progress we see. Improvement brings about change. However, “no man
is an island”- John Donne. Therefore, if we seek to improve ourselves only, we
would only be prolonging change. Selfishness amongst other egoistic
characteristics has become the order of the day and so today strife and
bitterness is inevitable.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">Do not think only of your own good, think also of
others and what is best for them. Helping improve others should move beyond the
need for recognition or followership. It should be a necessity; needed for
global change.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">The change story has become redundant as I sometimes felt
I had heard enough. I sometimes thought why it was so important anyway and why
have we not seen it yet. Then I realized change is happening whether we like it
or not. The world is not the same way it was yesterday, which path it turns to
- negative or positive depends on us. With one person here, another there all effecting
positive change, soon change would have evolved all round. Like Tola - another
brilliant graduating student would say in Pidgin English, “<b>that one no
be today</b>”. And yes I agree with him. “Tola, na tomorrow”. What does
tomorrow mean to you? Our parents worked hard yesterday so that ‘the you’ they
had not yet seen could have a better future. And so if we do not live to see
the all-round change at least our children would, if they don’t our
grandchildren would! Change must occur.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">The moment you stop improving on yourself, you are no
better than a dead man.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">Just the same way our dream of having a good education
and graduating has been fulfilled; we must also work towards achieving the
dream of having a better world.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">Live your life in such a way that tomorrow, somebody
somewhere would thank God for creating you." </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">Shalom Otuene</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">Twitter: @huntlya</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13299584110237604769noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2349862673167977143.post-45178784214962223072013-05-13T16:59:00.001-07:002013-05-13T17:26:42.039-07:002013 Class Speech By Farida Ibrahim (American University Of Nigeria)<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";"> Over the past week, I
was in Yola where I attended the graduation ceremony of a few friends of mine
who had become ripe enough to say good bye to AUN. It felt so good to be back
to where I had spent four good years of my life. Reuniting with
friends once again was a thing of joy for me. I sure had a wonderful time to say the least. Usually,
every year, in the American University of Nigeria, hundreds of graduating
seniors assemble together in the commencement hall as they await to receive
their diploma. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Like previous commencements, this one was no different as Farida Ibrahim, a graduating senior was
selected to share with parents, students, faculty, staff and the entire world
the collective stories of the graduating class of 2013. Her speech was not only
intriguing such that it captivated everyone's attention but it’s depth left
some persons who were present in the commencement hall crying and some shaking
their heads in total amazement. undoubtedly, her speech was sophisticated enough to
have impressed an intellectual like Prof Pat Utomi as he tweeted <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">“As I tweet I am on the platform at the
graduation of AUN in Yola and liking what I am hearing from the class
Valedictorian, Farida Great kid”</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Please find below the
text of Farida Ibrahim’s speech:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Flying in a plane is not exactly a phenomenal event.
I mean, there isn’t really much to look forward to when you’re hovering 6, 000
feet above sea level and your heart is pumping at a rate you didn’t think it
could. Once in a while however, a plane full of people flies across the
Nigerian sky, and during that hour, something phenomenal, almost magical,
happens.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Arik Air
Flight W3905 was one such phenomenal one. As it took off from Abuja on the
morning of Saturday 16<sup>th</sup> <span style="mso-text-raise: 13.0pt; position: relative; top: -13.0pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span>January
2010, there was no indication that history was about to be made, until you
realize that it was coming to Yola. You see, it wasn’t just any other usual
flight to Yola, it was among many odd flights that week, during which a good
number of the people who sit here today arrived in Yola to write our collective
history. And so it is on a Boeing 737-800 that our story begins.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">In the week during which that flight came, and in
the 171 weeks following it, 280 people have thrived in Yola, in every sense of
the word. We’ve eaten and slept here, we’ve laughed and cried here, we’ve been
successful and failed here, we’ve loved and loathed here. 280 beating hearts,
280 brilliant minds and 280 fascinating stories converged here, and so it is an
honor more than any I have ever received to stand before you today and tell a
story of hope, courage, and the triumph of the human spirit. Our story is like
none you have ever heard. This is the story of the class of 2013.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">You see, our being here today is not a mere
coincidence. The inevitable implication of our standing today is that we stand
on the shoulders of giants and are shaded by the trees they spent their lives
planting. We stand because Balewa and Awolowo, because Ahmadu bello and azikiwe
stood. We stand because the Funmilayo kuti's the shehu yar'aduas, the Dele
Giwas and Saro Wiwas stood. We stand on the tall and valiant shoulders of the
Soyinkas and the Achebes, of the Adichie's and the Alkalis, we stand because
many have made sacrifices and paid dearly for us to have what we have.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">And so long before this moment, long before we ever
came to AUN and our paths collided in beautiful disorder, the future started.
As we sit here right now, at this very moment, we are already late. Therefore,
the ability to waste any more time is no longer an option available for us.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Over the past few days, we have heard again and
again from so many people about the wonderful and life-changing experiences we
have had here, and so there is no need for me to reiterate that. It is in that
spirit that I bring you a slightly different message today.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">My fellow graduands, we leave our soon to be alma
mater at an extremely crucial and troublesome time for our country. As I speak
to you at this very moment, 70% of Nigerians live on less than 2 dollars every
day. 2 dollars a day is about N300 naira. 2 dollars a day, ladies and gentlemen
means that millions of children will go to bed hungry tonight. That hunger will
prevent them from paying any attention in school tomorrow, thus preventing them
from thinking as much as they should and can. That hunger will deny them a
future long before they can even imagine one. More than one-third of Nigeria’s
children who should be in primary school are not in school. For all of those
children, it means that a future with limitless possibilities like ours has
been violently snatched away from them, never to be recovered and restored.
Nigeria remains one of the 3 countries in the world where polio is still
endemic. More women die from childbirth here, than in some war zones. Millions
of women are unable to improve their quality of life and those of their
families because of structural and institutional sexism which manifests in so
many different ways. I could go and on about Nigeria’s problems, but all of
these are not new to our ears.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Every human being deserves to live with dignity and
with hope and with possibilities available to them. Do most of the people in
our country live like that? How many Nigerians can wake up every day and be
sure that their rights and dignities will not be stripped away, or that their
poverty will deny them all hope and possibility?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">How many of us have a contextual and critical
understanding of our history as a people. If we do not know where we are coming
from, where we are will make no sense. If we do not understand where we are, we
set off on the wrong path on the road to where we should be. If our priorities
as a nation with regards to where we should be are wrong, then where we can be
will forever be out of our vision and out of our reach.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">How long will we keep making excuses for Nigeria’s
relative lack of progress? Why do we continue to take one step forward as a
people, and 3 million steps backward? Why do we punish and vilify good people
and values, and reward and uphold mediocrity and evil? What are our obligations
to the Nigerian project? Is it okay for some of us to see service and holistic
citizenship as making money and just paying taxes and occasionally voting? What
are our obligations to fellow citizens? What obligations arise out of our privilege?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Make no
mistake, we are privileged. In a country whereby everyone should and can have
the opportunity to grow and prosper, yet only so very few do, we are unique
products of the unfair and unjust nature of the postcolonial state in Africa.
We represent a category of Nigerians with more power and privilege than we are
willing to admit and take responsibility for. We are part of the problem, but
like the strange paradox that Nigeria is, we are also a major part of the
solutions.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Nigeria has come a very long way since 1960, but we
have a far longer and more difficult journey ahead of us. We can no longer
afford to kneel under the destructive spell of mediocrity and fear. In the wise
words of Achebe, our elders say, that the sun will shine on those who stand
before it shines on those who kneel under them. If the sun will shine on our
generation and on the Nigeria we seek to create, then we must stand up for what
we believe every step of the way.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">We have everything that we need to build something
far bigger than ourselves. Why then should we settle for anything less than
excellence?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">My fellow graduands, our time has come. Ours has
been an education for peace, truth and progress, and for a truly unified
country. Our education must bring justice to the unjust. It must fix our
economy, tell our stories, find cleaner sources of energy, build ethical
businesses to take over the forbes list, make academy award winning movies,
develop technology for the next century, and bring hope and justice to those
that shall come after us. And it is possible. In our day, in our time, with our
work and through our hands, that Nigeria can move from a mere possibility, to a
reality more powerful than we ever imagined. Ours will be the time when Nigeria’s
children will hunger or thirst no more, where our brothers and sisters will not
be cut down by violence in their prime, where our uncles and aunts will not
burn in the attempt to clean out a fallen fuel tanker.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Ours shall be the generation to fulfill Fanon's
prophecy of discovering our mission and fulfilling it, because there is no more
opportunity for betrayal.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">All of these are possible, but like all other
solutions, they come at a price. In the words of Kaushik Basu, people say
unfair societies are self-destructive. In truth, they can last for centuries
& that is why we need vigilance & conscious action.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">My question to us all is, are we willing to pay the
price of action? If we assume that we have nothing to do with the fate of our
country and our continent, we are greatly harming ourselves, the legacy of those
before us, and the capacity of those after us.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">We are all that we have. We have no one else,
absolutely nothing else. If we refuse to believe in the Nigerian project, if we
refuse to take on the Nigerian challenge, ours shall be a generation unforgiven
for eons to come, carrying with us a mighty burden of failed promises. Because
we have lost the privilege to be ignorant or to choose inaction, this is a
promise we must fulfill. May we never forget that our choices matter.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">It is in reflection of all of these realities and in
celebration of the future of possibilities that lies ahead, that we gather here
today.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">However, make no mistake, today is not just our day.
Today is in gratitude to our mothers, who have spent countless nights in
prayer, on their mats, holding their rosaries, in mosques and churches, in our
living rooms and in their bedrooms, praying tirelessly during the night and
working ceaselessly during the day that we may have an education worth having.
Their prayers will never be in vain. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">This is in gratitude to our fathers, who continue to
give everything and more so that we may fulfill our potential. This is in
gratitude to our families, who have given up so much in order for us to be
here, who are the true definition of sacrifice. This is in recognition of our
teachers, who have dedicated their lives to bringing knowledge to us so that we
may fulfill our purpose. Today is in gratitude for the American University of
Nigeria, and all of its staff, its administrators, and its leadership, who continue
to give everything they have without hesitation so that our tomorrow is better
than our yesterday. Today is in gratitude to our founder, our board of
trustees, and our president, who continue to provide strong and committed
leadership to our development and growth as an institution. We are only because
all of these people are, and to them our gratitude and thanks are eternal and
boundless.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">As I conclude, it is important for us to remember
that in our quest for a greater future, we must never place perfection over
progress.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Nelson Mandela said that sometimes it falls upon a
generation to be great. You can be that great generation. The only true way to
let your greatness blossom is to dignify it via action. Dear class of 2013, how
will we use the education we have been given to act for the greater good of us
all?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Will we have the courage and dignity to act and to
serve no matter the odds? Will we serve ourselves or will we serve our country?
These are questions each person must answer in their own, and yet its answer
will affect us all.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Dear class of 2013, a very very long journey ends
today. You have crossed the finish line and the world awaits your
contributions. As you go forth and conquer in strength and in faith, I wish you
good luck and Godspeed. Congratulations! <a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=2349862673167977143" name="_GoBack"></a></span></div>
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Ibrahim</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13299584110237604769noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2349862673167977143.post-12427545252645965652013-05-11T01:50:00.002-07:002013-05-11T11:55:30.384-07:00Farewell Message To The Class Of 2013 of The American University Of NIgeria<br />
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To the class 2013, I celebrate you.
It was like yesterday when you all left the comfort of your homes and
flew thousands of miles to a place you weren’t so sure what you were
up against. Despite the many bombings and killings of innocent souls
in the north, which ofcourse was enough to have discouraged you from
embarking on a journey that would forever change your life and make
you a better person, you took that great risk not knowing what the
future had for you. For some, you said to yourselves “I will make
it through all of these.” Not knowing the path you will be
traveling.</div>
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It is no doubt that you all have
come to the end of “college” life and are about to start an
entirely new life different from what you were used to. May I use
this opportunity to remind you that it is not so much the destination
as it is the lessons learnt along the way. We are trying so hard to
get to the destination when infact the real message is in the
journey. It is the things that we learn along the way that is the
most beneficial to us. So may I ask: what lessons were you able to
learn while you were still an undergraduate?
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For some, coming to AUN was easy,
but graduating from AUN was what they weren’t so sure of. It
wasn’t an easy journey. I’m not talking about the high academic
standard that is enough to make it difficult for a lackadaisical
person to graduate neither am I talking about the many rules that
each student had to live by, which when violated would lead to either
suspension or expulsion from the university. No! No! What I’m
talking about is those students who weren’t sure where the money
for their next semester fees would come from; those students who were
sent numerous mails threatening to be dropped from their classes if
they didnt pay up their debt by “Friday.”; Those students who
lived in uncertainty throughout their four years in AUN while professionally camouflaging the pain going on inside of them by
smiling and hanging out with “friends”.
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Today, those 8 words <b>(I will
make it through all of these)</b> they said in faith has become a
reality as they will now say,<b> “I made it through all of these”</b></div>
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As you embark on yet another
journey, may I advise you to stop gazing at where you have been and
instead, start gazing at where you are headed. AUN was fun I know and
saying goodbye can be difficult not at times but every time… it’s
an experience one would want to have again and again and again but
truth is, outside the walls of AUN is a place to look forward to. It
can be scary to death and sometimes because of the fear of stepping
out, it is easy to be caged into what “used to be” and be blinded
to what ‘could be.” So, I say boldly to you, <b>FEAR NOT</b> for you
were born for this moment.</div>
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Don’t limit yourself to how you
came into AUN. You must embrace the fact that you are now a changed
person. So stop seeing yourself with the eyes with which you saw
yourself four years ago and start seeing yourself for who you are
becoming.
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This farewell won’t be complete if
don’t celebrate those who couldn’t graduate with the class of
2013 not because of poor academic standing but because somehow, they
couldn’t pay up their debt. It is important you know that you are
no less than those graduating today. While you may still be saying to
yourself <b>“I will make it through all of these” </b>I’m sure
that someday you will look back at all you’ve been through and
would say to yourself <b>“I made it through all of these.”</b></div>
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Congratulation class of 2013… Go
out and make your world a better place. Have the thinking of a champion</div>
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Gracias</div>
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Huntly Anabs</div>
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Twitter: @huntlya</div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13299584110237604769noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2349862673167977143.post-51001722308508152552013-05-07T00:43:00.001-07:002013-05-07T00:46:42.493-07:00A Pep Talk from Kid President to You<br />
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Things like this inspire me to a fault. I said to myself after watching this video "I just want to be MORE... I just have to come out of my cave and climb to the mountain top of my life..."<br />
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Please Check it out and most importantly, look out for the lessons. I bet you will like it.<br />
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Gracias<br />
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Huntly Anabs<br />
Twitter: @huntlyaAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13299584110237604769noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2349862673167977143.post-80743415079845772942013-04-25T22:44:00.000-07:002013-04-25T23:15:42.834-07:00The 5,000 People Drive<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I consider myself to be
an incredibly blessed person-not because of anything tangible or touchable or
even concrete, but because I have had so many rich and powerful moments and
experiences in life. Although still very young, I have been privileged to see
people at great moments in life; a case study was when a little girl whose
parents couldn’t afford to pay her WAEC fee later graduated with a Law degree
from the University of Port Harcourt. I have also witnessed someone who
couldn’t pay his rent at some point in his life later dedicate his first house.
Great moments! Priceless moments! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">But I have also been
there in some tough and dark moments. I have seen people who just in their
final semester, dropped out of school because their widowed mother couldn’t
continue paying their fees. I have been there when life was so tough that
people couldn’t be phony. And because I've been there when those crises begin
to occur, there’s a level of transparency I have been able to witness that has
made me appreciate life more. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Life sometimes can be
tough.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Life sometimes brings people to a
point where they scream “Help! Help!! Help!!!" as tears drips down their
faces. Such is the case of this young man called Vincent Nwokedi who was
diagnosed of Acute Lymphoytic Leukemia (Blood Cancer) just a day after his
first semester exams, precisely on the 10<sup>th</sup> of April 2013.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Vincent Nwokedi, a 600
level (final year) student of pharmacy is currently undergoing Chemotherapy in
the University of Benin Teaching Hospital (UBTH), awaiting to be flown to India
where he would undergo a bone marrow transplant <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>to cure his condition and the required sum <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>for his treatment is <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">N10, 000, 000 (10 Million Naira). </b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Vincent is at a cross
road of his life and in dire need of help. While N10 million is an amount some
people would comfortably spend to purchase just one car, it is all that’s
needed to save Vincent’s life. I know N10 million is quite a huge amount of
money, but if<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> five thousand </b>people
will sacrifice <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">N2000 (Two thousand Naira)</b>
each to assist Vincent, we would have saved a generation. This is that time
when we need to walk the love we’ve always been talking. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I have spoken to
Vincent myself and he told me that as at yesterday, 24th April 2013<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">, 2.6 million naira</b> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">(Two Million Six Hundred Thousand Naira )</b>had
been raised and he is hoping that he gets people like you and I to come to his
aid before the deadline. He needs this money! He needs you! He needs to be alive. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Think about the
incredible difference you will make in his life. Think about the inexplicable
joy that’s comes from being there for people in their time of need. Undoubtedly,
we’ve been to the bank many times to deposit money into our personal accounts. Again,
we can walk into the bank, pick up the deposit slip, inscribe on it Vincent’s
details, and walk up to the deposit stand and pay in whatever amount we have to
help save Vincent’s life. Betterstill, you can use the Quickteller button on
the ATM to do a Funds Transfer or even online banking like many of us do. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">When we give out what
we still have need for, that is GIVING.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Below are his details
together with a supporting document from the University of Benin Teaching Hospital:</span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">BANK:
Zenith</span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">ACCOUNT
NAME: VINCENT CHUKWUMA NWOKEDI</span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">ACCOUNT
NUMBER: 2100053461</span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Please help share this
information with as many people as possible. Let’s help save Vincent. Be part
of the 5,000 people.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>After reading
this story on <a href="http://misspetitenigeria.blogspot.com/2013/04/a-must-read-true-life-story-of-girlhow.html?showComment=1366799994725#c7898104921366614824">Emeh's</a> blog, I didn’t know
whether to call it a mere work of fiction or a true life story. Well… I decided
to share it here on <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The Journey Begins</i>
because I believe to some extent, stuffs like this really do happen in our
society and there are one or two lessons that can be learnt from stories such
as this. </span></div>
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life story and as unbelievable as it seems,with the recent inhumane <span class="ilad"><span id="IL_AD6">treatments</span></span> being meted out
on innocent girls by some heartless men..one cannot doubt
the authenticity of this story...</span><br />
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<b><span style="color: red;">Read below</span></b><br />
My name is Chinwe, I am 26 years old, I never graduated from the university,
simply coz I was stupid and careless, on my 24th birthday, I received a nice
gift, it was a <span class="ilad"><span id="IL_AD3">blackberry phone</span></span>,
I always wanted one, it was like a right of passage, my ex-boyfriend got it for
me, <span class="ilad"><span id="IL_AD7">he was</span></span> a student like me,
didn’t have a job, and I really never cared to ask as he could afford it, my
concern at that point was, yes I had finally arrived,......<br />
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<a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=2349862673167977143" name="more"></a><br />
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.... other girls in my hostel had blackberries and I would always get pissed
when I heard sounds of pings and messages coming into their phones at all hours
and I would stare at my Nokia phone and wish I could throw it away, but half <span class="ilad"><span id="IL_AD4">bread</span></span> they say is better than none,
so I hoped and even fasted to get a blackberry phone, <span class="ilad"><span id="IL_AD12">looking back</span></span> now, if I had the opportunity, I’d have
a <span class="ilad"><span id="IL_AD2">landline</span></span> with no internet
activity what so ever, anyway I got the blackberry phone and even got free<br />
<br />
BIS subscription, at that moment my life was complete, no more going to the
cyber cafes to <span class="ilad"><span id="IL_AD1">check my emails</span></span>,
my face-book or twitter, I had it all at my finger tips, life indeed was
complete, or so I thought.<br />
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Anyway, I became addicted to my blackberry and also my social media
applications, and since I had constant access, I quickly gained enough
followers, and especially guys, mostly because I had a lot of er*tic pictures
on my timeline, I was popular, finally I felt I was the main girl, everyone
wanted to follow me, I didn’t care if it was virtual, it felt good, checking
out my profile and having well over 8,000 followers, more than half of which
were guys, but one particular guy caught my attention, till this day I don’t
know what made him stand out, but we got chatty, he sent me direct messages and
I replied, he was quiet a gentleman , and I can’t remember him ever asking for
a nudè picture unlike the rest of them, so this made me comfortable with him,
his name was Tobi, he said he was a doctor , I didn’t have any cause to doubt
him, he had extensive knowledge and even gave me some medical advice from time
to time, we eventually moved from twitter to blackberry chat, we chatted all
the time, I got so comfortable with him, I gave him my number, and that would
come to be the biggest mistake I ever made.<br />
<br />
Tobi called me every day, some days he called more than once, at night he would
call and I would lay on my bed and have phone sèx with him, his voice was so
soothing, he made me do things I never thought possible, he had gained so much
access into my head, I realized later I had done some very sick and twisted things
just to please him, I would take nudè pictures of myself, I would send him <span class="ilad"><span id="IL_AD11">videos</span></span> of me touching myself in
private, and send him voice notes of me making moaning sounds and simulating
orgàsms, and all this while we had not met, not face to face at least,
eventually I played into his hands, I began pestering to meet him in person, at
this point I had lost my mind, I assumed I was in-love with him, and when my
boyfriend at the time broke up with me, I really welcomed it, for me it meant
no more sneaking around.<br />
<br />
Tobi eventually agreed to come to Lagos to meet me, all this while he had made
me to believe he was in Calabar, and would take time off work to spend a
weekend with me in Lagos, when I heard this I was excited, he told me to book a
<span class="ilad"><span id="IL_AD8">reservation</span></span> for him, stating
he would pay me back as soon as he arrived and also he said it would make him
more committed to the visit and would convince him of my seriousness, I bought
it all, he was smart, he was cunning, and I was stupid, oh how stupid I was.
The <span class="ilad"><span id="IL_AD5">funny thing</span></span> was I had sent
him tons of pictures, and all I had was just one picture of him, and whenever I
asked he would claim he wanted to be sure I loved him for him, and not for his
looks, and sheepishly I would try to convince him of my undying love, and would
try to appease him with nudè pictures of my body.<br />
<br />
He eventually made it to Lagos, I met him at <span class="ilad"><span id="IL_AD9">the
hotel</span></span>, he was tall, handsome and had a wonderful smile, he made
love to me over and over, and convinced me to spend the night with him, I told
him I couldn’t, because I had a test the next morning, now at this point I
don’t know what triggered his anger, don’t know if it was because I couldn’t
spend the night, or maybe I said something else I can’t remember saying, but
whatever it was, brought out a very ugly side of him, he called me foul names,
and kept going on and on about how he always knew I was cheap, and he knew I
was sleeping with other men, the same man whom had swept me away, slammed me on
the floor, he told me of how he had shown his friends all my nudè pictures and
how they had watched the videos and listened to the voice notes, he told me he
had made a bet with his friends, that I would actually pay for him to have sèx
with me, just to prove how stupid I was, well you can imagine how I felt, I was
confused and shocked, but I attempted to regain any little dignity I had left,
and so I tried to mouth off at him, suddenly he punched me in the face, and I
tripped over, and hit my head on a stool.<br />
<br />
The next thing I remember was waking up on the bed, I was tied up, and he was
staring at me, his eyes were dark and he had a sinister smile on his lips, he
stood up and walked towards me ,I tried to scream and realized my mouth was
tapped, my head was racing, the unfortunate part was that no one knew where I
was, he turned me over, and told me he was going to teach me a lesson, at this
point I was unclad, he rapped me from behind, and I mean my anus, the pain was
mind blowing, I struggled, and he hit me, when he was done he brought out a
small blade, and he looked at me for a minute and said, this scar is going to
always serve as a reminder, for girls like you always trying to be more than
you are, for stupid fools like you, he put the blade to my<br />
bosom and cut it off, and anytime I think of it, I still feel the pain, it was
like nothing I had ever felt before, he was calm, like he had done it a million
times, I could feel the warm blood dripping down my mutilated chest, tears of
fear and pain running down my face, and suddenly he turned around again, this
time<br />
all I saw was a flash.<br />
<br />
I don’t know how I survived it, but I woke up in a hospital days after, well I
was awake, but my eyes were swollen shut, It took a couple of days for me to
open my one good eye, and realize d damage he had done, he had plucked out my
eye, and cut my face,<br />
he had cut <span class="ilad"><span id="IL_AD10">my breasts</span></span> up real
bad, they had to it out, like I had cancer or something, there was no record of
who I was, coz he had taken everything, he had taken my bag, containing
everything I had. I was able to tell the nurses about what I could remember,
and also give them my mum’s phone number, the hospital felt so much pity, they
actually treated me for free, hard to<br />
believe right?<br />
<br />
Anyway I was taken home after weeks at the hospital to recuperate, it was
tough, I was blind in one eye, I had one chest and a hideous scar of my face,
talk about your sinage, he did a number on me, how dumb was I, sometimes I wish
he had killed me, but there are fates worse than death, and I guess this is one
of them, he was gone without a trace, the receipt<br />
from the hotel was in my name, so yes he had played me from the start.<br />
<br />
I didn’t dare go back to school, I was sure everyone would have heard, and I
was not going to become a statistic, so I decided to stay home, and mind my
business, besides what do I need an<br />
education for, I’d rather stay home, because there is no rising from this,
there is no happy ending to this story, this is the simple ending, I was a
victim if a sèxual predator, and I let him into my life period, and I take full
responsibility for that, I was driven by greed and lack of morals, I allowed
myself fall into an abyss, but well saying all this doesn’t change anything,
it’s a memory I will have to live with for the rest of my life, well not a
memory, because I look at myself in the mirror everyday, who would want to see
a nudè picture of a woman with one chest, one eye, and a stub.<br />
<br />
I have decided to publish my story, because with the rise of social media
atrocities being committed, every story can go a long way in saving a life, so
while you read, SHARE and help someone back to the right path, these internet
predators are real.<br style="mso-special-character: line-break;" />
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">And yes! I’m going to post the comments soon, so
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Let’s see who’s first to spot the differences. Spotted?
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Also, how about I ask: what do you see when you look
at these words---------</span><span style="font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span>> </span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">OPPORTUNITYISNOWHERE?</b>
Separate them so we can know what you came up with. E.g THEBOYISHERE… When separated
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Moral
behind this:</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> It is not so much the challenge as it
is your perception about the challenge. Maybe we need to stop focusing on how
big our challenges are and instead, focus on what has been deposited in us to
overcome those challenges.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You don’t
overcome challenges by making them smaller. You overcome challenges by making
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Get your mind to work. Hehe! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Have a great week folks.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Gracias</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Huntly Anabs</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13299584110237604769noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2349862673167977143.post-14006867134136720182013-04-17T05:01:00.001-07:002013-04-17T05:06:35.733-07:00T.D. Jakes: Unforgiveness Is Like a Cancer - Oprah's Lifeclas...<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">I have yet to meet that person who hasn’t at some point in their lives been hurt by the people they love. One of the most difficult things to do in life is to forgive the people who hurt you. However, we must understand that forgiveness is essential if we are to live life to the full. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is a gift we must find a way to give ourselves regardless of who or what has placed us where we are. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Forgiveness is such a big idea. It isn’t about weakening you but strengthening you to live and love again, performing at your highest capacity, unencumbered by yesterday’s maladies. It does not exonerate the one who hurt you, nor does it trivialize the depth of your trauma… But it brings you into an abode of peace where you begin to let go of your past and embrace your future. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Just a few days back, I
went shopping in Grand Square, one of Abuja’s most popular supermarkets, where
I witnessed a shocking incident that inspired me to write this article. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Few weeks ago, I wrote
an article titled <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">“One disease that
continues to plague most AUN students”</i> which triggered different opinions
from people. Some of the responses implied that I had limited the disease to
only AUN students while ignoring the vast population of Nigerians who suffer
from the disease. Maybe true, but I had limited the said disease to just AUN
students because I specifically wanted to pass across a message to them.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Today, I’m going to be
writing on what I have titled “One disease that continues to plague most
Nigerians.” While the disease I call “misplaced priority” could be detrimental
if not attended to hastily, I believe there is another, even more deadly. You
will find out what this disease is as you read on.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I had finished shopping
and was about exiting the building when all of a sudden I could perceive the
pleasant aroma of freshly baked bread. Overwhelmed by the smell, I thought I
should spoil myself with just a loaf or two, and so, I proceeded to the bread
stand where I joined a long line of waiting customers who were there for the
same purpose. In front of me was this dude standing beside this babe who I
observed to be his girlfriend. So, there I was, exhausted from standing when I
overheard this babe asking this guy if she could go pick up a few items to add
to what she already had in the trolley. He nodded and responded “Sure, why not…
feel free to do so.” </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">She left, and to my
greatest amazement, he tapped his friend who was standing in front of him and
asked if he could borrow “additional” N6, 000 to the money he already had
borrowed from him. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>His friend being
displeased with his inability to tell his “girlfriend” he had no more money on
him, responded to him quietly in pidgin English by saying<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> “How long you go continue with this fake lifestyle when you dey live
so?… Why you dey always make this babe believe say you hold when me and you
know say nothing gum you? Na the girl wey you say you won marry be this oh..”</b>
The guy being impervious to his friend’s confrontation, pleaded for the money, obviously
hoping to get it before his girlfriend came back with the items. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">From where I was
standing, I could see as his friend reluctantly reached for his wallet and
counted N6, 000 and handed it over to his him. Then the guy goes <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">“You be correct guy! No worry, na me and
you go gbedu this life together.” </b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">There I was, in total
amazement, as I tried to compare the person I saw on the outside to the person
he really is on the inside. Holding a Bold 5 and a LG phone of some sort and wearing
a Hawes and Curtis t-shirt, with an Emporio Armani wrist watch and a Gucci belt,
but yet with an empty bank account. It was easy to figure out because I had
just witnessed his friend confronting him right there in the bread stand to
quit his “borrow pose” life style and start saving for a living.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Although I wasn’t so
surprised at what I had just seen since I get to meet a lot of people his kind at
the airport, banks, offices, social gathering and even in the church. Truth be
told, I’m more than convinced that we have a generation of people who claim to
be on the outside what they aren’t on the inside- They advertise a product for
which they have no capacity to deliver and so, eventually, they end up embarrassing
themselves while leaving the people in their lives or those who admire them
from afar disappointed. I think these set of people suffer from a disease I
call “False advertising.”</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Not that I consider
myself to be immune to this disease, Absolutely not; for I would be a liar if I
try to parade myself as someone whose got it all together. What really makes
me cringe is the extent to which people have made it a habit to put up a front that
has no proper backing. It’s ok when you try to showoff knowing you’ve got
potential, but I think it’s a complete farce when you are just a packager with
no iota of potential. </span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">It would shock you to
know that more than ever before, people now borrow money from banks or friends
to buy expensive cars, live in luxurious hotels, buy designer wears and travel in
first class to various parts of the world on “borrowed funds.” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They sham a type personality to get you
attracted, and the sad thing is, most of us see these guys and then wish to
become like them with no idea of who they really are. The disease they carry is
about to infect us.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I’m of the opinion that
if you must borrow, it should be for an investment or to meet a pressing need
and not for pleasure or to impress people. Hey, let me quickly issue a
disclaimer here: Not everyone you see who drives an expensive car or lives in
an expensive rented apartment is boxed up. We’ve got BROKE people in Nigeria
driving expensive SUV’s and living in expensive rented apartments. I mean BROKE
people. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>How then do they keep sustaining
such a lifestyle? I’m glad you asked. Truth is, they keep borrowing from
different sources to camouflage their broke lives. Ouch! I know that was mean…
But the truth is bitter they say.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Sometimes people
withdraw the last cash in their bank account to obtain things for which they
have no means to maintain. Some ladies buy Brazilian hair abi morocco hair and then
go hungry for weeks, sometimes months. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I
mean, why would someone in his right senses eat up his seed? You didn’t get
that right? Don’t worry; you will get that next year.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">So, it becomes a
problem when you allow something that should be temporal take permanent residence
in your life. There’s nothing wrong with being who you are even when others don’t
like who that is. I believe that sometimes, if you are not careful you can
become so much a “persona” that you seize to be a “person.” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If you can’t afford a particular lifestyle,
please don’t borrow to do so. Only borrow what you know you can pay back. If
you can’t afford a plane ticket, please quietly go by road. It’s just a
phase.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Don’t try to impress people by
shooting yourself in the leg. If you can’t afford to host someone in a Chinese
restaurant please stick to Mr. Biggs or better still, invite the person for
dinner at your place. Don’t try to advertise yourself falsely, and then go back
weeping in your secret place. If at the present, you have the money to get yourself
a place in Maitama or Ikoyi, but you don’t have enough money to keep you there,
please you might want to consider another option. It is one thing to acquire
and another to keep.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Don’t get it twisted, it
is harder to maintain than it is to obtain. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Don’t obtain a lifestyle you know you can’t
maintain. Like the popular saying goes, “don’t live a champagne lifestyle on a
coca cola income.” Wisdom is profitable to direct. Don’t become like someone
who uses his public success to mask his private failures. It only piles up the
embarrassment that awaits you.</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">As I conclude, may I
say here that I’m not against having expensive stuffs or living a luxurious lifestyle.
No! As a person, although I’m not really a gadget freak, but I love shoes and
suits, and I know how much it cost me to buy them. But if getting those things
would make my account go red, I would rather wait till I have enough money to
buy them than look good with nothing in the pocket. I think it’s high time
people begin to embrace reality and get rid of the false pretentious life to
which they have become accustomed to.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">How about I ask: Do you
have the disease I call “False Advertising?” if you do, don’t you think it’s
high time you visit a doctor? And yes! I’m visiting mine shortly.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Feel free to leave a
comment in the comment box below.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin;">Gracias</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">First of all, let me
apologize in advance to you guys just incase you discover any error in <span> </span>the course of reading this piece. I mistakenly
broke my laptop just a few days ago and so I had to write and post this piece
using a phone device and editing with a phone is such a big deal so please just
manage what you see till i get my laptop fixed. Lol. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">Ehn ehn.....</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">As I was seated beside this
lady at the airport waiting to board my flight, her phone rang. .. She picked
it up and was on the phone for about 30 mins<span>
</span>gisting with a close friend of her`s I guess. Although I was a little
bit distracted by their conversation since I<span>
</span>was busy reading a book, but I didn't mind because somehow I got
interested in her telephone conversation.<span>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">Anyway, she was complaining
to her friend about this guy in her life who wouldn't make the move by asking
her out<i>. </i></span><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">"</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">He's
caring to a fault and pampers me like no other</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">"</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> she said </span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">"</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">but
I'm confused because he hasn't made it official yet and I don't want to mistake
his attention for affection... He just wouldn't make his intentions known</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">"</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></i></b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">By this time, I was no longer
interested in the book I was reading, neither was I bothered about arik and
their normal delay of flights as I was already getting entertained by this
lady's telephone conversation.<span> </span>Although
my eyes were fixed on the pages of the book I was reading, but my ears were
attuned to her telephone conversation with her friend. And yes! I know it`s not
my business, but then, I couldn't have pretended not to be listening. At least
ears are meant for hearing sounds right?. Lol.<span>
</span>So she continued <span> </span>"I'm
tempted to ask him out</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">"</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> she said <span> </span>"but I feel he's going to see me as
someone cheap if do... I'm just confused</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">"</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">
hmmm...</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">As she spoke with her friend,
my mind flashed back to my very first relationship where my girlfriend back
then happened to be the one who made the first move. Yes! She did. I guess she
had waited on me for so long to make the move by asking her out, but because I
lacked the courage to and perhaps was immature at the time, I just couldn't. I
mean, how could I have looked at her in the face with my then-big nose<span> </span>and say</span><span style="font-family: "MS Mincho"; font-size: 12pt;">“</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">I love you.</span><span style="font-family: "MS Mincho"; font-size: 12pt;">”</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> hell no! I would rather have preferred to die in
silence than voice out my affection for her. I was that scared! But the story
is different today! If I love a lady, I go after her as a sharp warri guy.
Close friends of mine know a lady I chased for almost 3 years without an iota
of success. Lmao. Can you imagine!! But that I won't try again oh! I'm not
Jacob who waited for Rachel for 14 years.<span>
</span>That's old gist. LOL! <span> </span>I'm Huntly
Anabs. I may sound shallow, but it think <span> </span>6 months is enough to pursue any lady and if
she doesn't give in,<span> </span>She's on a longgg
thing.<span> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">Anyways, I guess one of the
challenges ladies are faced with today is that their </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">"</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">male friend(s)</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">"</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">
find it difficult defining the relationship and so, they get confused because
these </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">"</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Mr nice guys</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">"</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">
wouldn't want to act </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">"</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nice</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">"</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> by making the relationship graduate from “friends” to
“In-a-relationship” or better still, “fiancee.” And because some of these
ladies don’t have the patience to wait for the guy to make the move, they
either make the move by asking him out or they place him in the “family zone”
not “friend zone” and “wave” at some other guy who perhaps they feel may give
in.<span> </span>lol.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">So as a lady, can you ask a
guy out if he's too slow to see you </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">"</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">waving”
along side with that “inviting smile?” Do you think it's weird or not just
proper? And as a guy, what if a lady asks you out? Will you give in or will the
male ego get in the way?<span> </span>In general,
what do you guys think about a lady asking a guy out? </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">Let's hear what you have to
say. Please share your opinion in the comment box below. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">Gracias</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">Huntly Anabs</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">Twitter: @huntlya</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Growing up as a little
boy, I often was surrounded by people who were my seniors. Rather than be with
people of same age, I would sit in the midst of these older guys and listen to
them as they talk about life, sports, their career, their relationships and the
struggles they face on a day to day basis. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My association with these “older guys” to a
great extent influenced my thinking and my perception about life and as a
result, I almost didn’t have a childhood. Not only was I greatly inspired by
these older guys, but I began to have a sense of direction for my life even at
that early stage of my development. Although I wasn’t so sure what I wanted
from life, but I was so sure of what I didn’t want.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">As I grew older and
began to meet new people, I began to see life in a new light. Not that I was
mature enough to have understood the intricacies and dynamics of life, but as
each day passed by, life became meaningful to me. Thankful, God brought my way
a gentle man by name Mr. Yomi who mentored me at that early stage of my
development and gave me new lenses through which I began to see life. The more
time I spent with him, the more I realized I wasn’t created to “fit in” but to
“stand out.” And many times when I tried to become like someone else, I only
ended up becoming a <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>"trial version".</span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">In his poem <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The road not taken, </i>Robert frost said <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I took
the one less travelled by, and that has made all the difference in my life.” </i></span></div>
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<a href="http://mbadventure.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/road-less-traveled.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="248" src="http://mbadventure.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/road-less-traveled.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">The "road less
traveled" is a path of discovery. It’s a path where you are forced to come
to terms with yourself and your God. Not everyone travel along this path
because not everyone has the courage to stand out and have to walk alone. It is
a lonely path and the farther you go the lesser your crowd becomes because not
everyone has the capacity to keep on with you when you are on a journey to
discover who you really are. </span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I must inform you that
along this path are people who know that wearing the crown is predicated on
carrying the cross. They are aware of the fact winning the high jump requires
one person who can jump seven feet, not seven people who can jump one foot. And
the toughest thing about travelling along this path is that you have to keep on
moving. The talented don’t always survive this path. It is those who through perseverance,
have refused to be daunted by the obstacles along the way, but rather have
resolved in their mind to press on in the midst of challenges even as they raise
their heads high and see the finish line ahead. Along this path, many things
will catch your eye, but only a few things will catch your heart. It is those
things that catch your heart you should pursue.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Your potential is
really up to you. It doesn’t matter what others might think. There will always
be someone out there who will criticize your every move. People will label you as
controversial when you don’t think like them or do things the way they expect
you to but in spite of what they think about you, or the names they call you,
you must remain true to who you really are and never lose yourself while trying
to live up to peoples' expectation of you. It doesn’t matter where you come
from. It doesn’t even matter what you might have believed about yourself in the
past. It’s about what lies within you and whether you can bring it out.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I’m convinced that we
live in a time and place with too many opportunities for survival alone. And
there’s more to life that mere survival. We need to dream big. We need to step
out of the moving crowd and be different. We need to adopt the perspective of
someone like playwright George Bernard Shaw who wrote, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">“Life is no brief candle to me. It is a sort of splendid torch which I
got hold of for a moment, and I want to make it burn as bright as possible
before turning it over to future generations.”</i></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">May I inform you that one
of the paradoxes of life is that the things that initially make you successful
are rarely the things that keep you successful. So, keep re-inventing yourself.
Keep reproducing yourself in other people. Remain open to new ideas and be
willing to become a student of life. Become a champion in your thinking. Be better
today than you were yesterday. Always believe in yourself even when others
don’t believe in you.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Find something you
like to do so much that you’d gladly do it for nothing, and if you learn to do
it well, someday people will be happy to pay you for it. </span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Live your life like you
were meant to. Try to see yourself as you could be, not as you are and then do
everything in your power to believe you can become that person. Don’t end up
like that person whose tomb stone read, “Died at 30, buried at 60.” Don’t allow
that to happen to you.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">And yes! You can’t
travel far in life without God. True are the words of King Solomon when he
said, “</span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Georgia;">Trust in God with all your
heart. Never rely on what you think you know. Remember God in everything you
do, and He will show you the right path to follow.”</span></i></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Thanks for always
taking out of your time to stop by. I appreciate you</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Happy New Month folks. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Gracias</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">A conversation I had
with a close friend of mine (Florence Young--- http://fowocare.wordpress.com)
inspired me to write this piece. We spoke about a whole lot but for the purpose
of not making this article too lengthy, I’m just going to focus on the most
important point which you’ll find out as you read on<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I consider this topic
to be an interesting and multifaceted one. As we all know, relationship
involves a whole lot and just like every other quality, age plays a major role
in any relationship. Going by the popular cliché “age is just a number,” it’s
easy for one to be subjective in their judgment when choosing or settling down
with a partner. It is no news that most relationships smother because of poor
communication which eventually gives birth to lack of understanding between
both partners. This usually is due to the fact that one person is more advanced
in reasoning than the other which makes it next to impossible for both partners
to get along.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Now, to a very large
extent, I believe age has little to do with a person’s level of maturity.
Although sometimes, our definition of maturity lacks accuracy and so we write
off of a person just because s/he doesn’t fit into our own definition. For
instance, some people tell me I think like a 35 year old even though I am just
in my mid 20’s while some others tell me I think like a 12 year old.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You get the gist? So, Depending on our
personality, we have certain qualities we look out for in the people we hope to
date and if those qualities are found missing in them, it becomes next to
impossible for them to have our heart.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Having said this, why
then do people give up on the one person they love just because s/he is either
younger or older than they are?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Why do
some ladies prefer to go through emotional pain rather than date someone their
junior?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I have seen both guys and ladies
suffer in silence just because the one person they love doesn’t fall within
their age range; It’s either the person is younger than they are, of same age,
or by far older.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So, instead of focusing
on the things that bind them together, they focus on the one thing (Age
difference) that divides them. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Since ladies mature
physically and mentally earlier than guys, they tend to look out for the older
boys. The belief is that an older guy understands how a lady is wired and so
can handle her even with all her drama as opposed to the younger guy who’s
assumed to be rather naïve. While this belief may be true, it is imperative
ladies know that not every “older guy” is a grown up. Sometimes, a younger guy
is by far a grown up than the older guy. The belief that a man must be older
than a woman goes back to when women were married at an early age, often 16,
and men their own age couldn't support them. Well, this is 2013. I don’t know
if ladies still marry at that tender age anymore.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I, for one, don’t fully
support choosing a partner based on age difference (who’s older and who’s not),
Important factors in choosing a partner are, how compatible you are in your
basic ideas of life and whether you both are able to show understanding ,
flexibility, patience, acceptance, love and respect to each other in the
relationship. However, the age gap between both partners shouldn’t be much so
one partner doesn’t get to treat the other like a parent, uncle, aunt, or a
child.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">To conclude this piece,
please allow me share with you a true life story:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I use to know a lady
who met this young gentle man on the plane flying from Calabar to Lagos state
(both cities in Nigeria). As luck would have it, they were seat mates for the
45 min they were 39000 feet above ground level. As most of us guys do when we
sit or stand beside a gorgeous lady, this young gentle man broached a
conversation and as they spoke, the lady was quite impressed with his level of
maturity, composure and eloquence. They landed safely, got off the plane,
proceeded to the terminal, and of course they exchanged contacts. You don’t
expect it to end there right? Do you?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Fast forward a few days
later, he made the first call, and that first call became the seed which
eventually produced a harvest of endless telephone conversations for a period
of 2 months until they decided to meet up somewhere. Now, for each time they
spoke over the phone prior to their meeting, she was always mesmerized by this
his level of maturity. There was this connection that existed between them. ” Quoting
her, “I am yet to meet a guy as mature as Femi.” Really? I guess that’s what
love can make anyone say.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Long story short,
holding a ring, he said those 4 letter words <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">“will you marry me?”</i> and she replied with those 5 letter words <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">“Yes, I will marry you”</i> awwwwww...
*Teary eyes* … LOL… You know these days’ ladies hardly turn down
proposals.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>#just saying.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Anyways, they courted for a year and seven
months until one day she found out that Femi was 2 years her junior. Having
discovered that she was older than Femi, she broke up with him and decided to
put behind her everything they’ve ever shared.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>She came home crying to my aunt that she </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 18px;">still</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 18px;"> loves Femi but can’t be
with him because of their age difference. I don’t know how many guys or ladies
support her decision, but I think it’s ridiculous of her to have called off her
relationship with Femi simply because of their age difference.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">In your thoughts, just
before you place that comment? I would like you to pause and think for a moment,
what actually is love? Would you have fallen in love with him if you knew his
age in the first place? Arguably, Age is correctly judged by behaviour,
disposition and the thought pattern of an individual... If you didn't know
his/her age, yet you fell in love and at some point you found out about her age
and want to pull out, then something is definitely missing. For you to have
fallen in love and experienced bliss in the relationship means he's just the
right age for you. This is my final thought pattern as regards this issue,
let's read yours.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I would like to know
your stand on this topic. As a guy, can you date a lady that’s older than you
and as a lady can you date a guy you are older than? Should age really be a
barrier in a relationship?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Please share your
thoughts in the comment box below.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Thanks for always
taking out of your time to read. I appreciate you.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Gracias<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">One of the biggest challenges
I had when moving to Sokoto State for my NYSC was adjusting to the
silence. Not the silence of the city, but rather the silence that comes from me
being quiet- me being alone. My friends know me to be a talkative. I talk
almost all the time. And yes! I try to make sense when I talk. How was I now to
adapt to this new phase of my life? How was I to go on with my daily activities
to utter silence? Yeah! There are times I shut myself to the noise of this
world and go into meditation. But this doesn’t happen all the time.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">In chapter 28 of
Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers, for those of you have read the book, I was
drawn to the silence Michael Hosea experienced when asking God if he released
Angel to Him (God), would he ever get her back. Now Michael was a good man who
fell in love with a bad woman (prostitute) and each time he tries to prove his
genuine love to her, she hurts him, leaving him with a scar in his heart.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This, of course, would not be the first time
Michael would have to let her go. The difference now is that she has fallen in
love with him. They have known the joy of the true marriage relationship. His
love has been reciprocated but God’s silence was his nightmare. Why wouldn’t God
speak to him in the midst of his pain? There are several things we must
remember about God’s silence in our lives.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">*Silence does not mean
absence. The Book of Esther is a great example of God at work, but no words.
The name of God is not mentioned, but the reality of His presence is
everywhere.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">*Silence may bring much
needed solitude. (BE STILL) Have you sat at a table waiting for someone to SAY
SOMETHING? There can be intimidation in moments of silence. However, when you
are comfortable enough with someone that no words have to be shared, the
relationship has shifted to intimacy. Not necessarily sex! But a comfort level
that speaks without words. God's silence is as much a sign of God's presence as
of God's absence. That divine silence is not a vacuum to be filled, but a
mystery to be entered into. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">*Silence tests our
trust. (BE STILL AND KNOW) Do you know people who seem to always "have a
Word from God"? First of all, I watch out for those people. Second of all,
it shows their inability to trust when there is no voice. Although I realize
God is at work, the moments of silence must eventually bring me to a place that
I can say, "I don't hear you, but I know you are there." There are a
few persons I communicate with on BB almost every day and the days I don’t hear
from them doesn’t mean they are not there. You get?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Our seasons of tests
and trials have taught us, very simply, to take off the training wheels and
ride. At first, we knew God was close by with arms opened wide to catch us if
we fall. It is not that He is not close by anymore. He is! Now we must trust
the experience of learning to ride and His ever near presence. To take it a step
further, we are actually riding a tandem bike and He is in front doing the
peddling and the steering!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In the world we live in, it is easy to allow
background noise to mask the beauty of silence. Our senses can get dulled to
the symphony God has created just for us. The television, blackberry, ipod,
internet, and other useful gadgets can even obscure our ability to hear God. I
realize there are times when God seems silent, but it is also possible God's
voice may be speaking, but is lost in the crowd of other voices and stuff that
invade our busy lives.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I read the story
recently of a man who lost his valuable watch in an ice house. His co-workers
carefully searched the ice house with him looking for the watch. They looked
everywhere, but they couldn't find it. A little boy heard about their search.
During his lunch hour he slipped into the ice house and emerged with the watch.
All of the men were stunned and said, "How did you find it?" The boy
replied, " Well I simply went to the icehouse, closed the door, laid down
quietly on the floor, and then I began to listen. After a while, I could hear
the tick, tick, tick of the watch." Maybe we need to go in, lay down on
the floor, be very quiet, and begin to listen.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">In the words of my
friend Daniel Addo (http://danaddo.blogspot.com) “God speaks LOUDEST in word”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Be still and know that
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Have ever been in a
situation when all you hear is God’s silence? <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And you are like mehn “I just need a word from
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<span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I believe by now most of you must have the seen the video that</span></span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> <span class="apple-style-span">went viral over the internet a few
days back. Although not given a title by channels TV, some Nigerians decided to
tag the video "My</span> <span class="apple-style-span">Oga at the top"
which makes it even more hilarious. With no intention of trying to exaggerate,
I must say here that I have watched the “My oga at the top” video more</span> <span class="apple-style-span">than 50 times and surprisingly, it gets me rolling on
the floor and</span> <span class="apple-style-span">laughing my ass out each time
I watch it. While no one is above mistakes, such a blunder, I think, shouldn't
go scot free. Therefore, I totally support the caricature people are
making of this video..</span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">However hilarious and embarrassing that video is to millions of
people, there is a lesson to be learnt from it. Something strikes me each time
I hear the man say <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">"My</b></span></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> <span class="apple-style-span">oga at the top.”</span></span></b><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> And whenever I get to the
part he said those five letter words <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">"My</i></span></span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> <span class="apple-style-span">oga at the top”</span></span></i><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> I pause the video, shift
aside my laptop and roll on the floor laughing with tears rolling down my
cheek. Forgive me please; I wouldn't pretend it isn't funny. It</span></span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> <span class="apple-style-span">is oh! I no go lie. It is abeg! </span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color: red; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">If while or after watching
that video you didn’t laugh, then it means something is really wrong with you
and I suggest you go for serious check up or maybe visit bar beach so those
“aladura’s” (White garment prophets) can conduct special prayers for you. Just
pay N10, 000 and your case would be taken care of. Why? Because you need it.</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> </span></span></div>
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<span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">In my opinion, this is
the funniest</span></span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> <span class="apple-style-span">clip of all time and I think this new Naija Lexicon with
the words: “My oga at the top” is not going to be forgotten anytime soon.</span></span></div>
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<span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">In a bid to camouflage his ignorance, he made several attempts
to dodge the question as he tried to get the Journalist to understand that the
decision to disclose the official website<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">
(ww.nscdc. *coughs* so.. Dazz</b></span></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> <span class="apple-style-span">all) </span></span></b><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">wasn't he’s but "his
oga at the top." But trust Journalist nawh! They wouldn’t let him be; as one
of the Journalists kept asking him with a sarcastic look on his face<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> “What is the official website of the NSCDC?</b></span></span></div>
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<span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><b> </b></span></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> </span></b><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"></span></div>
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<span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">What further amazes me is how that people are already making a
fortune off what others saw as a mere comedy show. It would shock you that
T-shits with the emblazoned words: “My oga at the top” are being sold for N3000
as I write this piece and I believe the demand for those customized shirts
exceeds the supply at the present moment (Business In-sight). Igbo boys
sha! I hail ona oh!!</span></span></div>
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<span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">The clip
taught me a few lessons</span></span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> <span class="apple-style-span">which I think I should share with you guys in just a few
lines. </span><br />
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<span class="apple-style-span">Now I'm more than convinced that a bunch of people
live their lives on</span> <span class="apple-style-span">a daily basis thinking
they own their lives when in reality their</span> <span class="apple-style-span">lives
isn't theirs but God (Oga at the top). Some, without any form of</span> <span class="apple-style-span">direction wake up, eat (sometimes without even brushing)
bath and off</span> <span class="apple-style-span">they go. To where? No where!
They live a life without purpose because</span> <span class="apple-style-span">somehow,
they wouldn't ask "Their oga at the top" the reason they were born</span><br />
<br />
<span class="apple-style-span">As an individual, I can't count the number of
times I have made</span> <span class="apple-style-span">important decisions
without consulting God (My oga at the top). There</span> <span class="apple-style-span">have been certain times I have exercised authority over
my life</span> <span class="apple-style-span">without even giving God (My oga at
the top) a little space. I have made terrible mistakes that I think I wouldn't
have if only I</span> <span class="apple-style-span">had admitted that I was
ignorant of what I was getting myself into and</span> <span class="apple-style-span">ask for direction. There's nothing wrong with
acknowledging your</span> <span class="apple-style-span">ignorance in a certain
matter, but there's everything wrong with</span> <span class="apple-style-span">claiming
you know when actually you know nothing. If you don’t know or understand a
thing, humble yourself and ask those who are intelligent enough to teach you
what you don’t know. That’s how you learn.</span><br />
<br />
<span class="apple-style-span">I wonder why it didn’t come to Mr Shem in an
epiphany that he was seated before channels journalist. I mean if you know
those guys, you will know they can make a fool of anyone. Should he have said <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">"I'm sorry, I don't know the answer to
that question” </i>his honesty perhaps, would have saved him the embarrassment and
maybe, you and I wouldn't have been making a caricature of the</span> <span class="apple-style-span">"hilarious” clip. In all sincerity, I feel for him.
I can’t imagine the humiliation his kids and wife are currently facing as a
result of what Nigerians are making off it. This ”My oga at the top” joke is
definitely going to last for a long time. Atleast he became popular overnight.
It’s not that easy to be known by millions of people overnight. Shey?</span><br />
<br />
<span class="apple-style-span">Having said that, I believe life would be much
better if people can humble themselves and seek to understand rather than be
understood. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ask questions where you
don’t understand and be humble to take correction. Self discovery begins with
acknowledging you don't know who you are and then asking God " <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">your oga at the</b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> <span class="apple-style-span">top”</span></b><span class="apple-style-span"> to show you who you are.</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">As I conclude this piece, <span class="apple-style-span">I’m reminded of the words of King Solomon:”Trust in</span>
<span class="apple-style-span">the<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> </b>lord<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> (Your oga at the top)</b> with all your
heart and lean not on</span> <span class="apple-style-span">your own
understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him (Your oga at the top) and He
will make your path straight.</span><br />
<br />
<span class="apple-style-span">Ehn ehn that being said, do you guys think he
should be queried, fired</span> <span class="apple-style-span">or pardoned for
making such a terrible blunder? <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I mean
should someone of his reputation go scot free for not knowing the answer to
such a simple question? I hear he has been suspended by his “oga at the top.”
Do you think that was the right thing to do? </span>Please share your opinion
in the comment box below.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Gracias</span></div>
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Huntly
Anabs</span></div>
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Twitter:
@huntlya</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"></span></div>
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<a href="http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcR6M8yz3GrLBKzwMdcHgkgumQa7Ofmt0PUCEF7vkmWPUHx6aFWGdw" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="293" src="http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcR6M8yz3GrLBKzwMdcHgkgumQa7Ofmt0PUCEF7vkmWPUHx6aFWGdw" width="400" /></a></div>
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">As the d-day draws
closer, the pressure on you begins to mount. Term papers due for submission, final
project wahala (can never forget the stress I went through while writing mine),
clearance, endless presentations, parties you just can’t afford to miss and at
this point, you begin to experience constant mixed feelings… one time you’re
like <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>‘Mehn… I just can’t wait to
graduate”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>at the same time you don’t feel
like graduating because of the friends you don’t want to say good bye to, the
covering that is naturally available to you in the society as a student and the
'comfort zone' factor (reluctance to step into the unknown).</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I remember how I felt few
days to grad. Truth be told, I was scared to death. Scared of what? I don’t know.
But I knew I was scared of something. Maybe I was scared of stepping out into
the “real world” as they call it, scared of saying goodbye to the people I’ve
come to know, scared to be left alone to make choices, scared because
I do not even know if what I had gained in school was enough to sustain this
new phase of my life.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">As I walked alone on
that calm night, reflecting on my journey so far and where I was headed, I was
confronted with that big question… What NEXT? Ok… now I felt like becoming a college<span style="color: #00b050;"> </span>freshman<span style="color: #00b050;"> </span>all
over again and re take courses such as WRITING 101, MATH 101, and all the other
101’s courses all because I feared stepping out into the unknown.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Fast forward a few days
later, I had my diploma in my hands and was given 3 days to evacuate the school
premises. But because I needed time to plan and get myself together, I stayed
back in school for about a week. </span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Stepping out of the
school gate after my week of planning, it was a time of transit from the crazy,
carefree, lovely and stressful life as a student into the ‘real world.” On
getting to the “real world,” I realized Nigeria is populated with a lot of frustrated
graduates. Some who wanted to become Doctors, Lawyers, Computer Science expert,
Engineers, and Lab Scientist, yet ended up with degrees in Fishery, animal
science, linguistic, Library and information systems and maybe Bicycle Engineering
(that’s if there’s a course like that). And the funny thing is some of these
people are first class graduates. Now, I’m not condemning any degree, neither
am I placing a profession above another, my point is; most graduates are
equipped for the battle (Labour Market) with the wrong weapons.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I mean, how do you become efficient in
something you have no passion for?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Ok… now you’ve
graduated… good… may be with a first class in double majors… awesome!! And you
are on your way to getting a PhD degree…Incredible… But the question is, are
you capable of solving problems and adding value? <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>That’s what an employer wants to know; How can
your first class degree make a difference in the organization? I believe life
is about the<span style="color: red;"> </span>enhancement of value and enriching
the lives of others.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">After I graduated from
the University, I worked in an oil firm as a Project Admin officer for about 6
months and trust me; it was a different ball game. It was a match between theoretical
knowledge vs. practical knowledge. You see, the title you wear is not as
important as the task you perform. You must understand that you become more
valuable based on the problems you solve not the degree you carry. No company
wants to hire a “first class” liability. So before you allow your first class
degree get into you head, take a chill pill, relax and ask yourself one simple
question: Am I capable of solving problems? Ouch!</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Now, let me issue a
disclaimer here: The Labour Market is highly competitive and demanding. Don’t
get it twisted. My friend Micheal Onobote would say, “Your first class will
pave way for you to attend job interviews, but it doesn’t guarantee that you
will get the job.” Your getting the job is predicated on what you know up
stairs and the people you know “at the top,” I mean, “Your oga’s at the top.” Shey
you get? And oh yes! The favorr of God.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Now, to stand out,
you’ve got to increase your capacity. You’ve got to do what others are not
doing. Look beyond your degree and keep growing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You’ve got to stretch and develop yourself. Acquire
a skill and be good at it. </span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Read books, magazines,
and articles that are related to your field. In fact be an avid reader. Read!
Read!! Read!!! To lead in your field you’ve got to read, practice, and be disciplined.
unfortunately, most people don’t read. All you here them talk about is
champions league, AFCON, NYSC allowee, who stole money and who didn’t and all
them<span style="color: #00b050;"> </span>Kim Kadashian, Rihanna and Beyonce’s
story. Honestly, I’m tired of mediocrity…<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Those guys have made
names for themselves. While others were busy talking about others, they were
busy honing their skills and building capacity. You also, should try,
regardless of where you are presently and do same rather than sit for hours
talking about people who don’t even know you exist *Throws away face*</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">When I started Blogging,
I had three (3) things in mind: (<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">1) to improve
my writing skill and knowledge base. (2) To inspire people (3) to educate
people</b></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I know the height I want
to attain, but to attain that height I have to start from somewhere which is
what I am doing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You also can do same.
We may not share similar passion, but whatever your passion is, chase it with
all you’ve got. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Maybe your passion lies
in singing. Start developing yourself in that area. Maybe you are crazy about
fashion, start a sewing class, read about top designers to know how they got to
where they are today. “<span style="color: red;">Despise not the days of little
beginnings” </span>If you have a passion for drawing… start practicing now. You
want to be a computer guru but all you do is open and close Microsoft word
every day<span style="color: red;">. </span>You must be joking. Your “oga’s at
the top” definitely won’t be happy with you. Take professional courses and constantly
practice and hone your skill in the area you want to major in. Start where you
are but don’t remain where you started. Champions don’t wait for opportunities.
They prepare for opportunities. Eaglets are born, but EAGLES are made. You will
never be all you were destined to be by remaining in the nest of your life- the
comfort zone. Step out of the nest of your life and join the leagues of eagles. </span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I’m pretty sure I have
offended some people. Well, I’m sorry. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I think I should stop
here so I can attend to my “oga at the top.” </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Please leave a comment
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13299584110237604769noreply@blogger.com36tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2349862673167977143.post-7934244466615893452013-03-10T12:56:00.002-07:002013-03-10T12:56:26.617-07:00Blogger's Diary: My encounter with a Daddy's boy by Emeh<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Emeh, also known as Misspetitie
is a Writer, Blogger, Journalist, Lawyer, Fashion/Style Editor and Winner: best
new blog 2012.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She blogs at <a href="http://misspetitenigeria.blogspot.com/">http://misspetitenigeria.blogspot.com</a></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">Enjoy
her piece below.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Lol some people might hate me for this
post...lol but I still got love for you all…One love ...lol</span></div>
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You think mummy's boys are a dating nightmare, have a re-think because, we now
have Daddy's boys. These are the worst set of guys any woman can date. Yes, they
are old enough to fend for themselves but still live at home with daddy, drive
daddy's cars and eat dad's food.<br />
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Sometime last year, a friend of mine met this popular Nigerian celebrity
DJ.An epitome of handsomeness and well traveled, she excitedly told me how she
had snagged one of Nigeria's hottest bachelors.<br />
However, there was a little problem. ..She had known him for over two months
and he never invited her home. He always brought up the excuse that he was
busy. As long as he hadn't had sex with her, there was no reason to panic.<a href="http://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=2349862673167977143" name="more"></a><br />
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So, one fateful day, out of the blue, he invited her over at night. So after a
musical show, she went along with him in his jeep (<b><span style="color: red;">oops!
hope this doesn't give away his identity .lol</span></b>) and as ladies do, we
resorted to BB communication.</span></div>
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She told me how they were driving towards Lekki phase1 and I was like
"big boy! Wow he lives in lekki" So we continued our bb chatter till
they arrived at his house <b><span style="color: red;">"OMG! Emeh this guy
lives in a mansion "she told me.""Seriously? How
big?"</span></b> I inquired.</span></div>
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She told me it was a duplex and that they just pulled into the compound
and that there were several exotic cars parked in there. <b><span style="color: red;">"U don hammer oh" The materialistic side of me
congratulated her "Don't sleep with him, don't kiss,bla bla bla"</span></b>I
gave her advise which ladies presume will make a man ask for a 2nd
date"(story)</span></div>
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I was just about to ask how the interior part of our new inlaw's <b><span style="color: red;">(yes we are that fast.lol</span></b>) house looks when she
pinged me "Emeh,u won't believe what happened now"..."Omg,he
gave u one of the cars"(wink)..<b><span style="color: red;">"No!
Dammit, I'm in the bush"</span></b><br />
"Bush in Lekki?I don't understand. Thought u were inside his
mansion"? I replied with a confused smiley<br />
"Don't you get it? The door opened, an elderly man walked out and
this guy just shoved me behind the flower hedge and asked me to hide."<br />
I didn't reply "<br />
This is so embarrassing"<br />
I didn't reply "<br />
Emeh are you there? Say something" .<br />
Honestly, I was shocked. I didn't know if to laugh or console her" .I just
said" since it’s not a woman, no need to panic. He probably doesn't want
the man to see you. Who's the man anyway"?<br />
<b><span style="color: red;">"His dad, the man is shouting at him now for
taking the car out without permission"</span></b><br />
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At that point in time, it was clear, this big boy was a daddy's boy,
still in his dad's house ,riding his dad's cars and eating his dad's food.<br />
<b><span style="color: red;">Fast-forward to 20mins later, he sneaked my
flabbergasted friend though the kitchen, into his tiny room</span></b> .This
is the same room he has been using since he was a kid. He jumped at the
slightest sound of his father's voice.(James..fake name..yes daddy)he would
scurry out like a rat not forgetting to gesture his finger over his
mouth,indicating she shouldn't make noise.<br />
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My friend had to hide in the bathroom three times that night when his dad came
knocking. My friend was like a prisoner, she couldn't cough, couldn't
talk, all because he didn't want his dad to know he had a lady over.<br />
The next day, after swearing for his generation, I vowed never to be in that
position and mapped out a strategy to avoid daddy’s boys,<br />
-Any young man below 30,driving a jeep, living in Lekki,VGC,Banana Island,is
definitely a daddy’s boy..<br />
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Then 3 months later, <b><span style="color: red;">I met this handsome darker
version of Lynxx</span></b>. He was everything a daddy’s boy was not. He was
32(ripe for marriage),he was riding a 2011 Toyota Camry, was working in a
construction company and lived on the island.<br />
Every time we chatted, he would say” You should come to “MY” house..I felt I
was on cloud 9.Wow!,he has his own house.<br />
So one fateful weekend we had a date at the beach and since it was on the
island, he decided to take me and my friend to see his house.<br />
We were in his sleek car, chatting away happily as he drove into VGC(Victoria
Garden City). At that point, I was a little taken aback.<b><span style="color: red;"> This place has got to be expensive, but I consoled myself
with the fact that, he might be renting a boys quarters or a little apartment
(not too bad for a Bachelor).</span></b><br />
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So we got to his street and someone was waiving him down frantically, but he
ignored him by saying” Just one of my boys around” So,I shrugged it off and as
we got to the gate of an exquisite mansion, the security guy opened the gate
and we drove in. He packed the car, smiled and said” Welcome to my humble
home”. It’s a pleasure” I and my friend chorused with plastered smiles.<br />
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As he stepped down, the guard rushed up to him and said “Oga dey o”<br />
I watched my prince charming’s face transform instantly wearing a shocked
expression” Oga dey,where ,how?<br />
I was confused when he said ermmm you know what, my uncle is
back.He wasn't supposed to come back today..<br />
<b><span style="color: red;">“WHAT”! I exclaimed. You live with your uncle?</span></b>
As I was still trying to take the latest information in,an elderly man’s voice
could be heard laughing heartily and approaching us from inside.</span></div>
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My date turned around in near tears”Emeh please,just enter the back of the car
with your friend and sit till he passes. He’s a pain in the butt….i blocked my
ears to the sound of his voice and instead of Lynxx,I saw shrek..I just winked
at my friend and we stormed out just in time to hear the uncle say”Who are
those ladies”?<br />
“Wrong house, wrong house” he stammered….</span></div>
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At that moment, I vowed…never again will I encounter a daddy’s boy..sitting
opposite a young handsome man a few months later, I asked” So where do you
stay”? Oh,I stay in Ajao Estate” he replied..I smiled to myself “I’d be dammed
if this one’s a daddy’s boy” and I was right” He sure wasn't as we
rode away in his 1994 Toyota camry….</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">It was a gorgeous evening, about 6:45pm</span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;"> and I was famished. so i decided to prepare something to put into my pot belly. </span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">As </span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">I was preparing </span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">my dinner, </span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">I looked out of the </span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">kitchen
</span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">window and saw this young innocent
looking lady walk into the compound. Wanted to be sure what she was up to,</span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">I stayed back in the kitchen like a
hunter waiting for the right time to strike and watched as she reached for her
phone and made a call. Since I wasn’t sure who she had just called, I
approached her and asked, “Who do you want to see please? Erm… Sorry, good
evening”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“I’m here to see John (Not real
name)” … she replied “we just spoke and he said he’s on his way.” Her voice was
so sweet and calm.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Oh ok…Make yourself
comfortable then” I said. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Knowing </span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">J</span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">ohn to be a player, I concluded that she
must be one of his numerous girlfriends who perhaps had fallen for his lies, only
for me to find out later that she was actually not his “No</span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">.</span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";"> 7” but “No</span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">.</span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";"> 1.” After about 15 minutes of waiting,
John showed up and they both went inside. Well, I ate, read a little and called
it a day. The morning after that night, I was in my room reading when suddenly
I heard her screaming “</span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">K</span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">ill
me! Kill me!! Kill me John!!!” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Together
with other corpers, we rushed to John’s room to see what it was that made her
scream incessantly. On getting there, we found her on the floor half naked with
bruises all over her face. He had abused her physically.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">To our greatest surprise, he threw her
hand bag and her bra outside, and forced her to leave… she kept forcing her way
into the room and didn’t want to leave as she said these words repeatedly, “I
still love you john please don’t do this to me… I’m nothing without you in my
life.” It was such an emotional moment I guess. Judging by what went down, one
would say that’s it… it’s over between them. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Well sorry! The reversal was the case. She
left and came back 4 days later begging that they get back together. Oh Yes! She
did come back to beg.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">This particular incident made me wonder
how many ladies out there are trapped in an abusive relationship. A part of them
wants to come out, but another part whispers to them “love is patient… you can
change him if you can endure the abuse.” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Really? I strongly feel the problem happens
when “sincere good ladies” ignore the “good guys” and pursue relationships with
men known as “bad boys.” Worse, some ladies find themselves unable to break
from an attraction to men of ill repute. “Good guys” are often perceived as
boring while “bad boys” are perceived as “adventurous.” While “bad boys” may be
fun, you must know that the party never lasts. Since this situation is more
widespread than many realize, let’s examine why this phenomenon occurs. First
how do you define a “bad boy?”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Now,
by all standards, John is someone I would refer to as bad boy; A bad boy
because he smokes and drinks excessively? Maybe not.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A bad boy because he has a tattoo on his neck
and left arm? Far from that.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A bad boy
because he wears ear rings and carries dread lock</span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">s</span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">? Definitely not. Who then is a bad boy?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A
bad boy is a man who abuses a woman physically, emotionally and psychologically.
He makes her feel worthless and demands from her what he’s unwilling to give. A
bad boy is someone without a vision, dream and a sense of purpose. A bad boy is
someone who lacks character. A bad boy is someone who is too immature and
preoccupied with himself to share genuine compassion, concern or acceptance. A
bad boy would rather be possessive than be protective of his woman. A bad boy
cheats on his woman</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">What amazes the most is when a “good girl”
views a bad boy as a “project “or someone whom she feels can “fix.” This
incident occurs when a lady acknowledges that her boyfriend has character flaws
yet believes she can change him.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">The fallacy of this belief is that it is
impossible to change a “bad boy.” He may fake integrity over the short term,
but a “bad boy” will only mature when he makes the decision himself. All too
often, a “good girl” reasons that a “bad boy’s “character will not harm her.
Sadly, the “good girl” is usually the person who winds up suffering the most
hurt. She hangs unto the relationship thinking her sacrifice will change him.
Months later, his abusive behavior destroys her self-esteem, makes her feel
next to nothing</span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">,</span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">
and drains the life out of her.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">I understand that if a girl/woman was
abused or ignored by her father, she may not know how to identify character or
real love. Worse, she may subconsciously think that her past pain can be erased
by being in a relationship with a “bad boy” and making everything work out
right </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Now here is the mathematical question: why go
through the stress of trying to change a “bad boy” into a “good guy” when there
is a “good guy” out there who loves respects and adore</span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;">s</span><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";"> you?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">So what do you think guys? Why do some
“good ladies” end up dating “bad guys” even though they know the consequences
involved? Please share your opinion in the comment box below</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Gracias</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Huntly Anabs</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">I
graduated from The American University of Nigeria, a university where you see a
lot of folks who suffer from a disease I call “Misplaced priority.” I, too, at certain
stage of my life (may) have suffered from this particular disease, but as I
grew more mature, I discovered the remedy for this disease that plagued me for
the most part of my life (thinking from ‘consequences” to “decisions”).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Now, that doesn’t mean I occasionally don’t
fall sick of this disease, I do! But like any reasonable person would do, I
never allow this disease to fester before I take my meds.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">As
a student, I was actively involved in the Student Government Association
popularly known as Student Union Government in most, if not all Federal /State Universities
in Nigeria. One of the persons who inspired me to go into politics was my
cousin, Teinye Akobo, popularly known as TY who was then very influential and
active in the system. He was someone I really admired and looked up to because
of his passion for students and good governance.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Everywhere you go, you would see Teinye Akobo
. Even in the toilet, he was there. It was that bad. But one thing that strikes
me till date was how he was able to combine politics, social life and his
academics and still graduate with a good grade.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Curious
to know his strategy, I dragged him out of his room one evening, and we sat
under a tree to talk, just a stone throw from the dorm. Long story short, he
made a profound statement that has echoed in my heart till date, “Never ignore
that which contributes to the development of your life and that of others.
Always know what’s important.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Ok,
enough of myself and Teinye’s gist. Now to the main issue. I had a telephone
conversation with a friend yesterday, and we spoke for nearly 2 hours. Our
conversation started out with our usual gossip, and “babes talk” and the
babe(s) we are eyeing from afar and all those type of gist. Bla bla bla.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You know what am saying… Don’t pretend like
you don’t engage in such conversations with close friends. You do!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">As
we spoke and laughed our bellies out over the phone, he interrupted “You know
Steve Harris, the life strategist was in school last weekend right?”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I retorted “of course I do, and am sure the
hall must have been full to capacity” He laughed and responded “Are you a
learner? Don’t you know AUN students again? They didn’t show up. The people in
that hall weren’t up to 70 persons despite the numerous reminder mails that
were sent to students” so basically, for the purpose of not generalizing I
would say most Aun student knew about this “career talk” with Steve Harris yet
some chose not to show up. Pathetic I must say. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">As
we spoke, my mind flashed back to the numerous events the university spent
thousands of dollars to organize of which over 70 percent of AUN students never
showed up and probably considered these events as rubbish. From the President
of South Africa, Jacob Zuma, to Ambassadors of several countries, to Google
officials, to Chima Amanda, the Noble Prize winner, To Fela Durotoye, Nigeria
most sought after motivational speaker and life coach and most recently Steve
Harris, the life strategist and to name a few.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">It
is shocking and quite unimaginable to know that a typical AUN student would
rather attend a concert or show where he or she gets to pay as much as N50, 000
for a table than attend a seminar or an event charged at no cost that would
help better their lives. Lest you say I am exaggerating, let me cast your mind
back to Fall 2008, the Naeto C show, organized by Shuffle entertainment where
some students paid over N50, 000 for VIP sit. And as most AUN students know,
the VIP session becomes useless/ irrelevant as students rush in masses to the
front row when the artist comes on stage. I still remember how a boy’s laptop
was seized by his friend because he was unable pay back the N50, 000 he had
borrowed to buy a VIP ticket to impress who? I don’t know. Misplaced priorities. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">I’m
pretty sure some of you would remember the show organized by 3 AUN students
where MI happened to be the guest artist. You would also remember the bottles
of Champaign that was popped that night at Pibz club. Interestingly, on my way
to the cafeteria for breakfast the morning after that night the popping went
down, I saw a fellow student crying like a baby. This was around 7am in the
morning. When I enquired of him why he was crying at that early hour of the
day, I found out that he had spent part of his next semester tuition fee popping
Champaign that night just to impress people; N270, 000 (Two hundred and seventy
thousand Naira). Misplaced Priorities.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Should
I mention a few perpons who deferred the semester and used the money meant for
their fees to buy a car just to impress who? I’d rather not.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">So
you wouldn’t think am against having fun or living the “youthful life”, I
attended most of this shows back in school and a few of which I even sponsored
quietly. At least am not that boring. But one thing I always had at the back of
my mind was that more than the “swag” and youthful exuberance will all pull is
a word called “substance.” The world don’t respond to your swag, it responds to
the stuff you are made of; the capacity you’ve been able to build for yourself
over the years. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">While
I may sound a bit critical and annoying in this article, let me say here that
this article isn’t intended to castigate or humiliate anyone or to brandish
myself as one “good guy” but rather to point out the issues that need urgent
attention.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I once met a student who was
in his sophomore year second semester, who asked me for the way to the main
University Library. That’s Peter Okocha hall. Quite unbelievable I know, but it
happened.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>What more can I say if a student
in his sophomore Year didn’t know the way to the main library.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Unapologetic,
I would say this disease has eaten deep into most AUN students and most of us
alumni’s as well and the quicker we find a cure the better for us. I have come
to realize that most AUN students take a lot of important things for granted.
Here you are taking for granted big opportunities that the University offers on
a platter, while many others out there wishes to have access to what you don’t
see as important.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Fine,
you may think these guys are just talkers, but what you fail to realize is
there are “talkers” and there are” branded talkers.” I mean, what does s/he
wants to say that I don’t know or haven’t before? When actually in reality
there are many things you are ignorant of. For most people, talk is cheap. But
I stand to be corrected. Talk isn’t cheap. You pay big box to have some people
speak for 45 min or anchor an event.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Do
you know how much Bill Clinton is paid to speak for just 20min? Do your
research. Haha! I’m sure by now most of you must have heard how much Kim
Kardashian was paid for spending just 20 seconds on stage.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Just in case you haven’t heard, she was paid
$500, 000 (Five Hundred thousand Dollars not Naira). That’s about 80 Million
naira.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">As
I conclude this piece, may I be careful to say that it’s imperative people, AUN
students especially, know what priority should be placed above another. We
should know what matters most and learn not to take for granted that which
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">I remember a certain period in my life
when I was going through a whole lot. I was depressed over so many things and was
still able to mask perfectly, the depression I felt on the inside of me. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Usually, when I have a lot going on in my mind,
and wouldn’t want to talk to anyone about it, I just listen to good music and
sometimes take long walks just to lighten up myself. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">It was on the 1st of May, 2009 while I was
walking back to my dorm from the Cafeteria when a shoe maker boy about the age
of 17 walked up to me with a letter in his hands. The content of that letter,
although filled with grammatical and spelling errors, was quite touching and
encouraging as he poured out his heart letting me know how much of an
inspiration I have been to him. While I may have inspired this boy in some way,
He was my hero for that day. Why? He encouraged me and made me see reasons why
I should be thankful for what I have rather than focusing on what I don’t have.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Ever since that day, I have gone out of
my way to put smile on people’s faces no matter how difficult it gets. However,
I have also made people cry by hurting them. I don’t dispute that fact. But I
try in the best way possible to fix things. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">One thing I have come to realize is that
behind every smiling face is a struggling human spirit. Oh yes! I know some
people won’t agree with this statement. But that’s the honest truth. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Do you know Just a word of encouragement can
help someone through the day? Compliment people and make them feel special. I
know some people who are experts at making you feel as though you are bigger
than life. Those are the kind of people I love to hang around; people who
inspire me to become better, not the ones who make me feel small and worthless.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Rather than criticizing people, why not compliment
them? Rather than pointing out the bad in people, why not point out the good in
them? Rather than tearing people down, why not build them up? Become a master
at elevating people with words/action and go out of your way to make their dreams
come through. Be a HERO to someone this week and weeks to come. Tell someone
how much you appreciate him/her. Show them how much you care about their
wellbeing. In doing so, please be sincere about it. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">I’m yet to meet that person who puts a
smile on other people’s face and remains sad. If you happen to anyone, please
do not hesitate to let me know so maybe we can take that person for a serious
checkup. Lol…</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">So, as you live your life, look for ways
to become a blessing to someone.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Gracias.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Huntly Anabs</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";">Twitter:@huntlya</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13299584110237604769noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2349862673167977143.post-83532759972870348072013-02-23T01:19:00.000-08:002013-02-23T01:19:40.408-08:00The in-between stage of life<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">I’m
usually not the kind of guy who would sit down for hours watching some
Hollywood, Nollywood, or BollyWood movie. Nah! Not my kind of thing… I really
don’t have that luxury of time. But I recently saw this movie <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">(The ultimate gift)</b> in one of the
folders in my laptop and decided to check it out. How it got into my laptop in
the first place I don’t know. I guess it has been in that particular folder for
months and I didn’t just notice. Well, this particular movie changed my life.
This is one of those movies that after watching; you would sit down and think
about life in depth. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">The
story goes thus;</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Jason
thought his inheritance was going to be the gift of so much money. Was he ever
in for a big surprise? The story sends trust fund baby Jason Stevens on an improbable
journey of discovery, having to answer the ultimate question: "What is the
relationship between wealth and happiness?" Jason had a very simple
relationship with his impossibly wealthy Grandfather, Howard "Red"
Stevens. He hated him. No heart-to-heart talks, no warm fuzzies, just cold hard
cash. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">He figured that when Red died, the whole "reading of
the will" thing would be another simple cash transaction, that his
Grandfather's money would allow him to continue living in the lifestyle to
which he had become accustomed, which of course was a very luxurious one. But
what Red left him was anything but simple. Red instead devised a plan for Jason
to experience a crash course on life. Twelve tasks, which Red calls
"gifts," each challenging Jason in an improbable way, the
accumulation of which would forever change his life. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>These tasks were to prep him for what was
already his. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It wasn’t going to be a
pleasant experience for Jason, but he had no option.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Jason was quite immature, and lacked what it took to manage
and grow his inheritance.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So, Jason had
to go through series of rigorous tests to enable him grow into maturity and
instill in him a virtue called patience. This in-between stage of his life
transformed his thinking, making him become a better person,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">I’m
convinced that we live in a society that constantly focuses on immediate reward
and instant gratification. We want whatever it is we so desire to happen right
away forgetting that life is in stages and nothing worth having comes quick and
easy; for we must understand that in between “here” and “there” <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">(Where we are now and where we are headed)</b>
is a bridge called “process” and this in-between stage of life is something you
must go through if you are to come out fully developed, not lacking anything. This
in-between stage of life is what prepares you for your life’s assignment.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">We
see so many successful actors, singers, athletes and comedians, who burst upon
the public scene and seem to be “overnight and micro waved stars”. But what we
didn't see was the in-between stage of their lives; the many years of rehearsing
and practicing their craft, the sleepless nights and the prolonged period of
paying their dues in minor roles and undesirable venues until they eventually
emerged as the overnight success that we believe them to be. We sometimes
desire to be like them but wouldn’t want to pay the price they paid to get to
where they are.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">A
lot of people desire to become great but don’t want to go through the required
process. You must understand that greatness doesn’t come easy; it cost what it cost.
For God will make you go “through it” before you get “to it.” He will take you
through His “Maturity school” where He gets to break, groom and frame you into
the person He wants you to be. This in-between stage of life can be painful and
would require patience and perseverance in order for you to come out complete.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">The
sad thing is, too many people don’t have the patience to go through God’s
maturity school. They go through life trying to make things happen by their own
efforts forgetting that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the
strong. If you are to live your best life, you must allow God break and remold
you into the person He wants you to be. You must allow him mature you and prune
from your life the things that stand between you and your real destiny. You
must endure the pain that comes from being remolded. Knowing that life is a
marathon, not a sprint, you go through each day knowing you have something to
learn.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Perhaps
you are at this in-between stage of life, and you are at the point of giving up
because you feel you may never be able to survive the pain that comes from
being broken and framed. I want to encourage you to hold on, endure the pain,
be patient, raise your heads high and see the finish line of glory ahead. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We are all in this together. God will never
make you go through what He knows you can’t survive. The only reason He allows
you go through it is because He knows you can come out of it.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Gracias</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Huntly
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Kalinga; mso-fareast-font-family: SimHei;">Life is so beautiful but at the same time it can be so filled with
lacera<a href="" name="_GoBack"></a>tions. Lacerations come from associations,
assimilations and exposures to things, places, experiences and ultimately
people.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Lacerations produce feelings of
pain. Hurt is the resultant effect of deep seated pain.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Some of us hurt because we have to deal with
complex issues and complicated people.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>How did the issue get so complex? How is it that I am surrounded with
such complicated people? Too many questions and yet too little answers.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Kalinga; mso-fareast-font-family: SimHei;">Associations and exposures are embraced with some degree of
expectation and when expectations are shattered, hurt sets in. The degree of
the expectation determines how much pain would be experienced. I believe that
associations and exposures are choices. The decision to also have an
expectation is also a choice which we have control over. However, no one
chooses to be hurt. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>No one chooses to be
rejected. No one chooses to lose a precious loved one or a relationship into
which so much investment had been made. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Kalinga; mso-fareast-font-family: SimHei;">I can see you try to smile through the day and cry yourself to sleep
at night. Life doesn’t just seem so fair at this point. You are truly brave
though. To think that despite the weight that you carry-some of you are going
through some real stuff not Jimmy walked out on Sally or called Sally stupid
kind of stuff- you still manage to put on a smile? That’s simply remarkable! I
may not be able to explain the enormity of the hurt that you are experiencing
right now, but I am sure that you and I share a similar commitment to end this
cycle of pain. You simply can’t keep going on like this.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Kalinga; mso-fareast-font-family: SimHei;">I know so many people opine that the things you go through helps to
make you stronger. However, for you, it hasn’t made you stronger. Being hurt too
many times has made you feel vulnerable, secluded and weary of the things that
brought you pain. If it was a man, you have become weary of the gender. Somehow
the things you have experienced are threatening to destroy all your
foundations. You feel like you have lost yourself. Friends, lets help you get
rid of the pain. Let’s help you see that you are still whole, you can still
smile again. This is why I am writing because I still believe. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Kalinga; mso-fareast-font-family: SimHei;">Frist healing is a choice. You really need to see yourself from a
different perspective. I am sorry for sounding like it’s so easy to do-It’s
not. Oh but I hate to see you this way. I hate to see you feeling so battered
and confused. I have to present the truth and you just have to take it because
it’s from a heart that sincerely believes. You don’t have to spend the rest of
your life living from a historical perspective of pain. You must decide that
you have cried your last tear and make the decision to look ahead and move on.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Kalinga; mso-fareast-font-family: SimHei;">So many people who have experienced hurt tend to think that they need
to change their personality. It’s been proven that sensitive and nice people
feel hurt the most. Why would we face so much cruelty despite the fact that we
do our best to be caring and nice? You hurt not because you are nice. You hurt
because you are sensitive. You however do not need to change any of these
attributes. They are a part of your core and actually serve as your identity.
There is nothing wrong with you. You are not too nice as I often hear people
say. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Kalinga; mso-fareast-font-family: SimHei;">If you change who you are, you’d hurt yourself even more.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>All you need to do is realize that although
you cannot control people’s external actions, you have the power to control
your internal response to their actions.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Kalinga; mso-fareast-font-family: SimHei;">Dear, I know how much you have cried. Maybe you are correct that I do
not understand well enough to try to help you. But I am glad I am trying to
help you. This only shows you that they lied when they told you there was no
one else to trust. My next solution is to encourage getting to trust someone again.
You really don’t deserve to live a weird life of not being able to trust. Real
functional people get to trust. You are functional. You can trust again.
Understand that when people break your trust, their character remains on the
line while you move on knowing you gave your best. Life is beautiful and you
are worth the time I spent putting this piece together. You are valuable. This
hurt you feel will pass and in the end, you will win.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Afterwhile, this won’t hurt you no more.
Release the pain and smile again.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; mso-bidi-font-family: Kalinga; mso-fareast-font-family: SimHei;">POD</span></div>
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this note. I initially was to make it a testimonial/interview of a sort with
real-life views from various people (which would come later) cuz</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> </span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">people seem to
relate well with experiences than some composed text but then again...I know
one person will find some facts and be blessed. Enjoy.</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Its few days to graduation and I remember how I felt during this
time. With few exams to go, after all the stress and project had taken its
pound of flesh. Fast-forward a few days later and the supposed TTG came and
went. July also came in the twinkle of an eye and bam! We were out into the
'real world' as they say.</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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then, like it was some sort of lions' den or like we were Titus fish being
released into shark-infested waters. It was absolutely over-hyped...or not!</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Then the big anxiety came after grad. Job, Labour Market, NYSC,
MSc...OH! I forgot Marriage too. Then we all began the race and I must say
there are a few things we never knew back then.(Hehehe...'back then' like it
was 10 years ago, shey. Pardon the drama). Some of which I'd share, not as an
experienced one but as one who feels the little he knows is worth sharing.</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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years. Life is just not fair!</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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that room...after all the celebration...after all the friends are gone to their
various houses...party music faded...parents asleep...and you’re staring at
that paper you struggled to get for 4/5/6 years in your hand(as the case may
be), then you'll be confronted with that big question...WHAT NEXT?</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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never. But the essence of this is to charge you to ask it now! What next?</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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make you alert and on your guard cuz that's life my bro (or sis).</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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mentor and friend, Steve Harris and it goes:</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">"Your background has no right to put your back on the
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2:1 or whatever grade only earns you a seat and a table to write a test.</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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with a 2:2 cuz of that. Don't let the 1st class get to your head, neither the
3rd class to your heart.</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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your head and failure isn't so bad if it doesn't get to your heart".</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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There are jobs but no qualified people.</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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from (I won't mention the name but you need to see the high demand for your
brand out there)</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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'forced' as it were into our blood stream...Why won't our packaging be in high
demand? They didn't attend 1am impromptu meetings with you or race to Chapel
before the door closes. Let them say.</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">The thing between your ears...Brain, right?</span></b><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Nobody cares if you were born and bred in Hebron...or your spoken English is
better than the Queen's or that your over-starched shirt is sharper than a
sword. What can you bring to the table??? What value can you add?</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Oh you dress good...great!</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Also, please keep your connections green. Know people ooo. hmm.
Sometimes doors just open via that person who knows someone that knows another
person in a high place.</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Not everyone will do aptitude tests. Confirmed, Tried and
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or ACCA or CFA?… <i>not a wise idea I must say.</i></span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">You have a passion for music production and you're not sound in
Fruity Loops or Adobe Audition or the likes? <i>You scare me</i>.</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">You want to be a Networking guru and you've not tried to ping
into Library's router once or immerse in those Cisco things, <i>I piry you</i>.</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">A Business consultant and you're not reading materials to brush
up your knowledge base?...<i>not good at all.</i></span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">A web-designer and you’re still experimenting with Dreamweaver; <i>you
need cane</i>!</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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much on this. Some friends you must never ever lose. They might be the link to
your open doors. Some you need to discard.</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Warri people will say: Birds of the same feather, na the same
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navigate within the same degree of proximity.</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">“Your life in 5 years will be a function of the books you read
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"Leadership Principles for Graduates" by John C. Maxwell. A friend
got it for me for my grad and I can say it’s the best gift I got.</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Value family cuz when all else fails, (even though it seems not
sometimes) they'll still stick by you.</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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life. He is all you need to have your needs met. (This sounds familiar)</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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life's subtleties.</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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you're at peace always.</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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can figure it all jare.</span><span style="color: #555555; font-family: "inherit","serif"; font-size: 9.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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